How to check if anyone's conspiring against me? I AM GOING MAD!?
Question:
They make negative comments on my life, the way i walk, talk and act. If my hand shakes while stitching- they say I take drugs or I have a mental personality disorder.
They are trying to prove me that I am mad.
Please help!
Answers:
Please calm down. First, contact a psychiatrist, you may have paranoia. If you choose not to, at least channel your suspicion of your peers. Find your own study material if the teachers refuse to give you enough. If it becomes a problem, just beat them at their own game. And even if you choose not to go in for a diagnosis, try talking to a therapist. They will understand your situation much better than anyone online.
If you're this talented, go someplace you're appreciated.
be confident
share your problem with you friends and professors who like you.
nothing to worry you can over come it
Ok, now the best thing to do is to stop telling yourself that you are mad. There is a saying, those people who think they are mad, never are, the people who do not believe they are mad, ARE.
I do think that you should go to the head of your college and tell them what is going on. Be totally confident in this. Do not let your hand shake etc, keep looking up, tell yourself that because of your passes, you ARE the best student. If you allow them to bring you down, they have won.
If you do not get any satisfaction frm the head, have a look to see if there is an overall body that controls the colleges in India and have a chat to them. Next, have you thought about applying to another college, either in Inda or abroad, this may be an idea, might help you to improve your skills even more.
Hope this helps, by the way, you are NOT mad
Say, what are you using to stitch your garments with?
And is the fabric made with a little paranoia?
Which college are you going to, I'll need to certify their courses on Conspiracy Theory.
And how are you reacting to all these images and feelings in your mind?
If you are behaving as though everyone is plotting against you, are you sure the others are not just having a good laugh at your expense?
It has been my experience that the marks you get in school are exactly what you deserve. If your work is outstanding you will attain the highest mark. And vice versa.
If that is a respected school, why would they pick on you, an individual student, when their reputation is at stake?
My thoughts are that you need to seek counseling. Most schools have a counselor or you can ask your doctor for a reference.
That is the best advice I can offer.
Good luck.
Buddy...Success is not a monster in a river somewhere! Have a heart, be a man, face the reality, focus upon your goal, concentrate on the task at hand. Do not let useless thoughts jumble your world. And remember -
"OBSTACLES ARE THOSE FEARFUL THINGS THAT YOU SEE WHEN YOU LOSE SIGHT OF YOUR GOAL"
Dude I had a bit similar problem when my Uni didn't supply me the requisite lectures n therefore my grades suffered. I took em 2 court 2wice n won both times n I fought n argued my own case without ne help n woion it both times. Ur probs r far worse n if u have ne proof then take em 2 court, m sure u wud win. It;s quite easy for non-Indians 2 say u shud complain 2 Principal, get counselling etc. m suire that they r bein helpful, but they don't no that teachers rn't really moral nemore n they tend 2 stick 2gether rather than help one who is bein opressed by one of em. N v all no their isn't ne easily accessible forum 2 get help either.
M sorry that u r goin thru a rough time but as u seem 2 be a confident person with ample self belief so u've 2 options either clear ne misgivings bout urself with each n every1 or take em 2 court. U do seem 2 have a solid case against ur academy. Leme no if I can help u ne further.
all the best n chin up. :D
Are you suffering from any phobia? You need something to boost your moral. Start doing pranayama and ignore all other things. Concentrate on your work and you will come out of this. Drinking Indian Mulberry fruit jice will help you to stabilize mentally.
There is nothing to worry about it and go Mad... First try to be confident on your self. If you feel university is nót providing lectures and information, forget that you joined in a university. Put your efforts in internet and join forums (which belongs your field). Search and browse through them, you will get what ever study material you want.
"Stop complaining and Start thinking."
If there is a negative comments, please ignore it, do not argue with them. If you argue you will get more depressed.
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