I am pretty sure i have a narcissistic disorder, What should i do?

Question:

I have done much research and have found that i match almost all the symptoms of a narcissist. Over the past year i have struggled with this knowledge and believe i need to do something about it. The disorder has become a major problem in my life, making relationships very hard to manage. It has also got me in trouble numerous times. The problem is that i have found no actual evidence that anything can be done to fix this.

Does anyone here have any experiences with this type of matter? I feel that even if i did get help i would still at the end of the day think and feel the same way. What should i do?

Answers:
Very simplistic answer, but it's going to be the basis for everything *anyone* does right:

Look at someone else before you look at you.

Sounds very simplistic, but it's not. You want to eat caviar, but she wants a picnic lunch. What do you do? You think you can invent a computer program that safeguards America, but someone KNOWS you can set up the entire household network. You know you have talent, and want others to see it. That's how narcissism works, to an extent, the chronic need for kudos and to elevate yourself so that you feel better.

Put everyone else first for a while. You've tried a lot of other things. Put your symptoms in reverse. It definitely can't hurt.

Please obtain a referral to a mental health care provider.
You need to speak with a knowledgeable person about this.
Although I have some understanding about narcissistic personalities, I have not heard of one who is aware of being narcissistic or cares to obtain information regarding this problem.
Usually narcissists are so involved in themselves they cannot see how their behavior affects others and their relationships.
If you do have this personality then an early diagnosis and treatment plan is vital.
I am not convinced you are narcissistic.
You may have narcissistic tendencies but not have the disorder.
Good luck in whatever you do.
I care!

If you really do have a narcissistic disorder, I think you're light years ahead of most people who have one. As far as I understand, most people who have narcissistic disorders, think they're just fine, and any trouble they have is caused by somebody else. Just the fact that you are open to help, probably means it'll be a lot more effective.

You can't know if therapy will help or not until you try it. All you know right now is that you have doubts about it.

I think practicing empathy and listening could be a good idea, and so could therapy. Check around, see if you can find somebody who has a reputation for being good with this problem. I say: find thyself a therapist, and give it your best shot!

Seek out volunteer opportunities in your area - volunteer with those who need food, or shelter, or something. ANYTHING. It will help you get over yourself!

Peace+

I am pretty sure i have a narcissistic disorder, What should i do?

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