Going to high school this year and I have a social problem??
Question:
How can i deal with my social problem?
I'm white and and i dress black. Most of my school is black (not to sound racist). And i find that all the kids that say mean stuff are always black kids.
Answers:
Welcome to being 15. It's a tough time in life. If your fears keep you from doing activities you want to do, see a doctor. That's an anxiety disorder.
Ok tell you the truth in high school they will ALWAYS find something to rip on you about.. im sorry i know how it feels to be fat maybe you could go on a diet i did and lost 10 thingys and now im 55 things noone rips on me but its who you are ..
i know its easy for people to say just block them out or they will get tiored of.. they dont but please dont be depressed or anything like that.. it will gett alll better in year 10 trust me..
YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE JUST REMEMBER THAT
Any child that looks different from their peers gets this kind of reaction from other children. You will just have to put up with it I'm afraid. If it gets too much for you , you need to see one of your teachers about it but I don't recommend you go 'running to sir' every time somebody says something to you. I was ginger when I was younger & kids used to try to tease me over that but it never bothered me. If it had bothered me, I wouldn't have shown it because the majority if kids stop when they realise their trolling is getting them nowhere.
well going to high school aint easy,well u have big frame so ur strong,join a sport and this mite be cheesy but be ur self not a black kid! i know how u feel im goin into my 2nd year of HS and im live in oakland CA, SO ITS DA GHETTO,AND iknow da ghetto would respects the real u
Whoa, you're tall... if you are really bothered by your appearance just eat right and excerise and hopefully you'll loose the weight and get down to your desired weight. Also drink a lot more water (A LOT) and eat very fiber rich foods because they help "clean you out" and loose extra water weight and keep it off.
And if that doesn't work if you ever have to take Topamax, you probably will loose weight!
Man do something about it.
If you are not happy with things then sit down and reflect what you feel you need to change.
If you are happy then don't change anything. People say don't change who you are or what you look like if you are happy but honestly it isn't that simple.
If people tease you for being fat then take the initative to hit the gym. You at the perfect age to turn your "big bones" into muscle and be pimpin it by the time you are a junior.
If you are dedicated to improve one quality about yourself it can help you in every other way.
Think about it, if you loose that baby fat and people start to notice you in a different light then it will improve your self confidence. By imporving your self confidence it can help with your grades and social skills which will help you later on in life.
Remember excellence breeds excellence and if you strive to continually improve yourself there is no end to your potential.
I / we believe you you man... Let your parents know how you feel and tell them what you want to do and they should have your back.
If you want to eat healthy let them know. You could in a sense be a cornerstone of a positive change to your family if you just put your foot down and demand change.
Do it! Do it man! GO and don't look back.
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