Do i think about things too much?
Question:
i will obsess over things in my mind
thinking "i should of" this "i could of" that
is this normal..?
like if a say somethin and i accidently offend someone ill think about that for ages.. and get really anxious about it..
wtf? why do i do it? i dont know..
im even doing it now over something i did hours ago!!
Answers:
It could be two things, according to the example; you just care allot about people, you don't want their feeling hurt, maybe you know how it feels and are trying too hard to make sure others don't feel the same pain.
Other possibility is and over-awareness of your reputation/self-actualization or simply seeing yourself from a third person point of view. You might be to hard on yourself and just need to think "people should just accept me for who i am, meanwhile I'll do the best i can"
We all think allot sometimes, but to over-analyze always leads to trouble, you not solving a math problem.
i'm pretty sure that's a sign of OCD. obsessive compulsive disorder. look it up if you're interested. but i would not be too worried about something you said or did if it wasn't something bad. you know? hope this helps. :)
We all do that to a point, everone at sometime get that way. But what do you do about it is what matter.
My friend does that too, and I think females in general have a tendency to do this, just in varying amounts.
I find I do the same thing.It doesn't do you any good to obsess like that. You can't go back and change it....I get my mp3 player and go for a long walk!
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