What do i do..Please i really need help?
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I would get a job and move out.
tell your parents that you are really trying but feel you cannot control your behavior. ask them to take you to a therapist.
Ask you parents for help, medical/mental help. You need to see someone about anger management and possibly medication. If you can't turn to your parents seek a counselor a school counselor can give you a list of places to contact. Please seek her ASAP, your life is precious. I wish you the best!
please take what you just told us and print it and give it to your parents, if they wont help then dont give up. tell your school, tell other family members, do what you have to to get help! you need to see a therapist too, i hope that you can work threw your problems, and find out what is causing it, you have so much to look forward to in life. just remember that nothing never stays the same :) think about how much you are loved and how important you are, and get the help you need. i wish you all the best!
Your family physician may want to refer you to a mental health professional ASAP. There are many choices for you, your parents need to see how troubled you are and seek the appropriate help. That is their job and responsibility to you.
good luck
Talk to your parents how out of control you feel with your emotions. Ask them if you can go talk to a therapist or psychiatrist. Seriously, just talking to someone outside of your family can really help.
You need to talk to your parents about getting help. It sounds to me like you are depressed. I was the same way when I was your age until I started taking medication. I don't think you are a bad person or anything like that. I know how it feels to be completely out of control. I am bipolar. Once you find the right medication, you should be okay. You might want to try therapy as well. Especially because it sounds like you have some unrecognized resentment.
The fact that you are aware of something being wrong is the first step towards the solution. I thank you for that. It all started when you were a young child, believe it or not. If they were the slightest bit indulgent with you and not consistent with their discipline of you, then that is why you are the way you are. You diet, your activity level, your work habits, your attention to detail, the things you choose to do during the day and night reflect who you are. Find out who you want to emulate (copy, follow) and you should be well on your way to success. That is what your parents should want for you. It sounds lilke they do not know what to do with you. I think you are just asking for their time and attention. is that right? Love is all we need. Right? Right! we are afraid of it sometimes though, aren't we. we do not know how to go about getting it into our lives or giving it. for some reason or other. Read your KJV of the Holy Bible 1 Corrinthinan 13 about love. it will help a great deal.
Tell your parents exactly what you've put here. Tell them you want to see a doctor, a psychologist, or a psychiatrist. The onset of many mental disorders is during your teen years. I was diagnosed as bipolar when I was 13. Don't waste time, with medication you could feel more calm, you're life could be much better. Just don't be afraid to talk about it to your parents or even a guidance counselor at shchool, maybe even a teacher you trust, your minister, even a supportive friend could come with you to talk to them. Just don't sit by and do nothing. God bless.
Please find help! I think you do have some problems, but there are people out there who can help you. You can ask your teacher how to start.
have you ever thought about talking to your doctor you might be bi-polar. i know a girl that was the same way. They had to bring someone into the home to try to use coping skills. Like when she would get angry she would do something she enjoyed that would calm her down, she was also a cutter. She is now on medication and talking to a therapist once a week or so and she has really calmed down. Its something to talk to your parents about.
when i was your age, i went through some simliar things. if you're asking for help online, i truly hope you're also asking for help IRL!
some rebellion as a teenager is normal, however the violent part is what's really a worry.
if you're also experiencing depression & suicidal ideation, please ask your parents to get you into therapy. it's not something to just blow off...
if you're that angry inside, i'm guessing something happened that hurt you on such a deep level you haven't dealt with it & this acting out is a way to try & deal with the emotions but is really causing more problems for you.
please please please get a professional you can trust & talk with & get it all straightened out before it gets worse.
you might not like to hear this bowever perhaps you need some time away from your family in a safe, healthy, & controlled environment so you can process whatever happened to set you off like that & begin healing
edit: Oh! and the fact that you pointed out they can't stand your behavior is a good way of letting you know that they still love you
I think that you need to immediately talk to your parents. Just from what you have written it sounds like you are having alot of the symptoms of Bipolar. Especially the mood swings and uncontrollable rage. Please let your parents know exactly how you're feeling. It's nothing to be ashamed of. There are so many medications out there that will help. Suicide is never and option..at 16 you have a whole life just waiting for you to live it. What you describe is very treatable. Take care, and good luck to you.
Your resistance to life is the cause of your anger. Nothing is wrong with you, but.
you can change your attitude before it's truly too late. See what it is you're lucky to have.
you're acting like you don't owe anyone any thanks.
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