I need someone to talk to...?
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Here I am!! No, you're not alone...we all get our "down" times. It's horrible to get through them, though, I know. You can email me and vent away all you like. Sometimes it's just nice to have someone to listen.
There are loads of people out here, but you need to talk to the right sort of person. The Samaratians are helpful and other similar organisations. In the UK there is Parentline, but I'm not sure where you are.
Hope you can find someone helpful.
Drop your son off at a baby sitter and have a good old time with your husband!!
I am. I believe we all find our selves feeling as you do at some point in our lives. As if the walls are closing in and no one is listening. Then our little ones pick up on our moods and act accordingly. Husbands, well they are a breed of their own. But being married is not a death sentence or a life sentence for that matter. I used to cower in the corner rather then argue back, then one day a woke up and said no more ! Be strong with everyone in your life. Take control. Of course I do not know your details, but I would be more then happy to share mine. Maybe my past may help you. Feel free to e-mail me. I would be glad to listen.
be patient , everyone had problem in their life, and everyone have a mental problem , no body doesnt have a mental problem, but it depend to the degree of the mental problem itself , so love yourself the way you are and treat your husband and your child the best you can do and go out find for a friend to talk to , don't live alone and thinking about the problem, it only will make it worse and will increase your depression and your gray hair , life is not dark all the time , it full of brightness , dont act from emotion , take it wisely,
best luck to you : )
If you stay home with your 3 year old child things can get that way,things get monotonous,try to be positive,when some ones yelling at you ,give it to them right back! and just try to get ahold of your son,your the Boss! try to talk out with your husband about what the problems are,put all the cards out on the table,right now im feeling like crap cause im home ,i really need to be working and so far i found anything!! and its getting pretty discouraging,and my husband really needs my help,i feel worthless around here,but i know thats not true,because they have a clean house,clean laundry,all bills paid and in order,dinner at 4:45 everyday,dont feel that way pick yourself up,and dont get depressed,ive been there and its miserable,thats what us housewves have to go through sometimes,but its up to us to not let it get so deep.have a good day,and if anyone wants(or thinks!that they are going to yell at you today,tell them to kiss off!!WHAT ARE THEY GOING TO DO?)
I'm depressed too. I just separated from my husband 3 months ago and I don't have any kids. I wish I had a 3 yr old son. You have his whole life to look forward to. I am completely alone in a crappy apartment. It seems like everyone is married, dating someone or have these great families. I totally hosed my life up by marrying a wife beater who wouldn't get a job and I still put up with it for 5 years. I also have really bad PMS right now so that's not helping things. Email me if you want to feel better about yourself.
Seek couples counselling: read some books on raising children (minimise/eliminate sugar, preservatives, artificial colors & flavors & MSG), and practise daily, and when needed, one of the relaxation techniques on pages 2, or 11, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris...
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