I was raped numerous times over past four years-please help?
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Maybe you could go back to visit her some day and ask her if she can talk during her lunch break. Maybe you could get her E-mail her and speak that way. Yes you did transfer to an adult ward but it doesnt mean the only person who helped you through this process cant talk to you.
When i was 7 i was also raped by my brothers best friend who is 11 years my senior. He did it to me in the closet in my very own bedroom numerous times to count. It put me into depression for 10 years of my life no doctor or person could never cure my pains.
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ook? someone should shoot the man to stop this bs
I'm very sorry that happened to you...good luck...
Things could be worse, you could be fighting in Iraq
I can relate. I have a real hard time talking about what happened to me. You just have to try to trust someone, and let go. It can really help, and the more you do it the easier it becomes. Im sorry that you didnt get to say goodbye to your nurse friend. That really sux!
you should buy a gun and next time he comes for a "visit" shoot him in the kneecaps and call the police
or you could try to reconnect with the nurse and work things out and get help with her
Relax. Take it easy. Never think about the bad events occurred in past. Behave like a good mature girl. You are not physically handicapped. You can do all activities independently. Now think independently. feel afresh.
You have the capacity to overcome all bad feelings. Don't beg anyone for help like this. Get the way of your own
that sucks and everything but just out of curiosity what dose the raviging of a grown man do to the nether regions of some one so young? dose it look like like a battle wound or what
is there a way to call the hospital and ask to speck with her just to say goodbye
you could try the courage to heal book and work book its been very helpful for me recovering from being raped as i cant do therapy either sometime i will do support groups because i like being with people who have been though what i have been though
Hey Raman V, are you like a rapist or something, telling someone not to think about the bad events of the past? Are you a freaking moron? You live in la la land, and I think your favorite movie is Pollyanna. And your favorite friend in the whole world is your collection of Michael Jackson videos.
Hey, you chick trying to look like Amy Lee, why don't you stop insulting people who ask for help, and go finish your Satan worshipping ritual.
very sorry,
I can only advice to start a new life.
take karate classes, self defense,
also learn to do mediation, will calm your mind.
I am terribly sorry you had to go through this. I understand finding someone and then feeling as if they are gone. Don't mind the others that don't understand what or how this has happened. It unfortunately does happen and the most important thing is for you to get the help you need and deserve. I had to go through quite a few therapist until I found the "right" one that I clicked with and trusted enough to where I could confide in. You had this nurse but for reasons beyond any ones control she is no longer available and this is very hard but think about it. She would want you to be getting the best possible help and healing. If you are not feeling comfortable with your current Psychotherapist try talking to your dad and explaining the situation and find one that you do feel safe and comfortable with and can share things with. It does take time. It sounds as though your dad is supportive and understanding since he was willing to get you a private Psychotherapist to work with. I wish you the best~
EDIT: Dang people...there are circumstances that happen where you have NO control and/or feel as if you do not. That is how you feel during rape whether you know the person or not and regardless of how many times, even if it is your spouse, if you say "NO", it is rape! Once is too many times for anyone. Lest we forget we are talking about something that started occuring to a 13 year old who I believe would still be considered a child and still is!! Have a heart. What if this was your child? What if it were someone you knew? Regardless, it is not for us to judge or question but to help!
you got raped 12 times over 4 years by a man u don't know.
How did you get raped 12 times by the same man?
This is either BS, or you brought it on yourself.
i think you are talking shi'ite-why would you let the same man rape u 12 times - you liked it, didn't you.
By your name i can sense you are a tease.
Kinda hard to believe your story. I don't know how this story will hold in court.
Let us grant that you are super naive, and that you did not know what was happening. Let us grant, too, that you have poor eyesight to not recognize who it was who did it to you 12 times.
What to do? You must open up to the private pscychotherapist hired by your dad. That is the only way. Do not worry that in the process, you might reveal more than what you are ready to reveal. The healing can only start after you have taken these out of your system.
You were raped by somebody you don't know? For 4 years?
Yes, you need help and the best one is the nurse.
If you were in and out of hospital you would know which hospital it is.
So go there and find your nurse.
If you cannot remember go and see the police which you should do anyway.
If that brings no results ask your father to engage a Private Investigator.
Remember that this doesn't have to control your life. My wife went through very similar circumstances. She is very successful in life and her career. I'm very lucky to have a great family. She always says that she is determined to do well despite all that has happened to her. She refuses to give up. Seek help from counselors, but don't let it control you.
Sorry you had to go through that, being raped is a horrific experiance. Unforunatly you have attached yourself to this nurse, your trust lies with this nurse and you dont feel you can trust anyone else with your problems. Try taking things a little bit at a time, if it helps try writing it down and giving it to your psychotherapist, they will then go from that and begin to help you.
If you need support and advice this website is very helpful, it is for survivors of abuse and rape.
Hope this helps
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