Question:
Hi.I am a 25 year old lesbian and I have a girlfriend who is 28.we've been dating for a little over 4 years. She has Bipolar.and I have OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder), ADHD, Anxiety, and a Mood Disorder. I am taking meds and going to therapy twice a month and see my psychiatrist once a month. Well let me start by saying my girlfriend is spoiled, very spoiled by her dad, and does not get along with her mom very good at all. We live with my mom, cuz it's cheaper for us and she looks at my mom as more of a mom. And I have so much to say but I cant fit it all in here..but it boils down to this.she gets very bad bipolar a lot and has episodes..was on Welbutrin and it made her worse.is on lamictal now and said it helped for a while and now is saying doesn't help her. She likes to always be right and have me or anyone for that matter kiss her as* (she has come right out and said she wants me to pretty much be perfect and kiss her as*).I am not perfect. She expects
Answers:
I'll tell you what you will hear from any psychiatrist...leave her or it will be your death. Life will move on and you will find another. If you stay with her you will be pounded to a pulp and then no one will be able to fix you. I know it will be hard (it shouldn't be because of what she is) but eventually you will recover. I am an older person who has been through a great deal of this sort of stuff during my lifetime however I can tell you without qualification that each time I made a decision to do something that was very difficult eventually I was not sorry for my decision. I am probably still alive today because I ran away from difficult situations that I knew I could not win. Yours is a tale of woe and your story will be a tragedy if you do not leave once and for all. Please take my advice while you are still young.
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