!!!!MY DAD IS FREAKING THE BRAINS OUT OF ME..I JUST WANNA MOVE OUT ANY ADVICE -please-?
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Ok, your dad loves you, but has no idea how to show it. Smoking is gross and you know it. When you have kids, you know better than to act this way right??
You need to move out. Maybe the Air Force. Coast Guard.
Start your own life. I am a guy- Your not acting like a girl ok..
I know you are afraid. You are forced to move on. I would pick the Coast Guard.
MOVE OUT! Your father is abusive. Smoking sucks and it's a hard habit to break. You can start by stopping with the excuses you're giving yourself. Tell yourself you can rather than it's too hard. But regardless of the smoking situation, you have to get out of there. Is your dad harming your mother and sister as well? Maybe it's time you called the police on him.
Hey, man. Legally you are a man now. Stick up for your rights or leave. It doesn't take much.throw a few things in a bag. break open your piggy bank, grab a P&J and out the door. Simplest thing in the world to do. Did it myself.
oh hun =[
lifes not easy isnt it.
and i know what you mean about the home situation.
just call quit line, use patches or just cut down slowly, (Rome wasnt built in a day)...ur dad is also not being very nice about this situation and know that its not you it him. Also remember, everything happens for a reason and whatever doesnt kill you makes you stronger. Goodluck and i hope the best for youâ„
You didnt mention where you live.
If you live in USA the next time he beats you, call the police.
You smoke outside I hope, not indoors?
You can move out. Do you have a job so you can pay rent?
You should leave. If he does it one more time you need to call the 5-o. If your smoking in his household you should respect that he doesn't like smoke. If your not even smoking around him and he's acting like that I think he is the one with mental issues. No, your not acting like a girl. It's messed up and you shouldn't have to deal with that. If it keeps up you should leave since you are 18.
if you have a job, try to get with a friend or two and get a place of your own, but until you can move out, try to smoke only when you are away from home, and try not to be at home that much, even if you have to get two jobs, that will keep you away from your father and you will be able to save up to move, I hope things turn out ok for you
You are NOT acting like a girl. Your father has some serious problems. You must go to the police or a family member you can trust. This guy is a ticking time bomb. If you don't step up and do something - it could end up very badly. Seriously - you have to act ASAP. Your mom and the rest of your family needs you.
Go to a friends house, someone who has understanding parents. You are indeed under a lot of mental stress. There are some mental health agencies that can help. You really need to get away from your dad. Get professional help. Good luck and God bless you.
I'd move out. You are old enough, you should wquit smoking but your dad sounds like more of a crack pot to me. He's threatrning you and hitting you with a metal rod? You have to be kidding me. Family does hold you back and sometimes love keeps you in situations you shouldn't be in but if your dad doesn't hurt them and you are 18 you have little to loose. I want to move out of my dad's house (divorced parents I'm 14) but I wont although he is a violent useless drunk bastard because if the money in court, the hassle, and my grandparents who I don't want to hurt. Part of you believes that they will understand and wish you the best and maybe they will but that just makes it harder. IDK you have a tough decision but the answer is clear to me. He is threatening to kill you so I'd dithc the bast***. Goodluck
leave if you can you re dad is abusive and no one should have to deal with that contact you re local domestic violence program you are not any less of a man for this and they will help you
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