Cant go on anymore?

Question:

i really am thinking about dying right now, i just cannot take it anymore, im sick of freinds blowing me off too go do something else, im sick of putting myself out there with people i consider freinds and they dont put more of themselves out there, im seriosly sick of being underappreciated. i do everything i can for people and get a hand full of feces back in return. i try everything too make myself happy and im still depressed day by day, im so sick of life i wish i would just die, im just soo sick of seeing everyone else have fun and when i try too i end up worst than before, put myself out there, you bet everyday i do, and you bet everyday i come back with not a person too talk too, i wait for oppourtunities then they never freaking come! the hell is the point of living when, when you try and make oppourtunies they dont come, and when you try and make them it dosent work out.

Answers:
I'm so sorry that you are feeling awful right now. Depression has a way of wrapping itself around your throat and squeezing sometimes.

The good news, is that these feelings are temporary. Although they are intense, uncomfortable, and sometimes do make you want to die - they WILL END.

It is important for you to focus your energy on getting into treatment. If you are a minor, talk to your parents today about getting you to both a psychologist (for therapy) and a psychiatrist (for a medication consult).

If you are an adult, make a few calls today and get yourself into therapy. Medication and therapy (together - not separately) are the BEST treatment for depression. Go ahead and take the plunge. It will make all the difference.

There IS hope. It DOES get better.

Hang in there,
~M~

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I understand how you feel but you gotta hang in there. People are just people. They come and they go. You have to find out what makes you happy and do it. Dont wait on other people. Dont wait for opportuinites, I have learned that you have to make them. Rejection is apart of life, yeah it hurts like hell, you feel like you arent appericated or worth anything or that you arent good enough or that something is wrong with you. but you have to do something for yourself. Love yourself, Spend time with yourself. I have suffered with depression for a long time and I have learned that no one wants to be around someone who is all gloom and doom and sad all of the time and yeah it hurts but you have to realize that once you deal with what is making you depressed or whats having you feel like killing yourself then you will see that more people will want to be around you because you are happy and have joy. Trust me on this one. You have to do this for yourself. Dont wait on any one.

Listen. honey, suicide isn't the way out. It never is. just try to talk to someone. they can help.

if you commit thats like giving up. Please reconsider this. I really hope you stop yourself. Best wishes

xx

hey i have felt like u on more than one occasion and i no that dying seems to be the only way out as you feel u have nothing to live for.. well you do just because opportunities have not shown themselves to you yet does not mean that they wont and as for other people they have probably felt the same as you at some point in there life but thay hang on in there and then finally they got there life in order and things started to happen which made them feel good and trust me all this will happen to u i no u prob think it wont at the moment but it will happen when u least expect it .. so please dont do anything to jepordize that your life i valuable and good things cant happen to u if your not hear !

Keep smiling you will be ok !!

Oh wow, I've been where you've been. But sweetie, suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. You don't always have to go through what you're going through. I'm glad that you've turned to YouQA.com for some type of help. If you need someone to talk to, email me at simple_pleazure@yahoo.com. I have alot of insight on things like this. You don't have to go another day feeling the way you do.

Most people, my self included, have felt the way you do now. It helps when I concentrate on all the good things I have and to realise that friends have busy lives and to expect their intentions to be good. Sometimes in the heat of the moment we misunderstand what the other person says because we all see things differently. Maybe you think I have an easy life and it's easy for me to say but I know what it's like to feel like you've got nothing else left to give. There is support out there for you if you are willing, and open to assistance. I suggest talking to a GP or a Social Worker to get you in contact with people and organisations that can help you through this.

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