The man I love has developed a porn addiction.HELP!?
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Tell him it has oughta stop or you are leaving the relationship.
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Redirect his porn sites to other sites...
just leave the loser
There is help for these kinds of things. However, if he's not willing to seek it there's not a whole lot you can do. Addiction is a strong word. If it's bothering you that much, you can let him know you'll be monitering his internet usage/TV viewings. This will probably make him feel like a child and he'll end up running the other way.
I feel for you and can sympathize with you at the same time. My husband must know every porn site there is, and worst of all, we have two children who use the computer sometimes and have "accidentally" come across his stuff. I have let him know many times how I feel about it. I've felt the hurt you have...why look at that stuff when you have me right here? I wish I had a better answer for you, but just keep trying to talk to him and make him realize how much it is hurting you. If it is videos he is watching, burn them!! lol Good luck!
I know its really hurtful when you find this out. It can do some damage on your self esteem. My husband used to be that way. He had even kept naked pictures of his ex. I told him every day for 6 months how I felt. I did leave him 3 times because of it. We weren't married yet, just living together. I basically gave him an ultimatum either he throw the pics out and quit watching it on the Internet, or I'm leaving. He eventually stopped watching it on the Internet and threw all the pics out. I'm not saying that's a good way to go about it. The sucky thing is even if he does stop you'll go insane for a while checking the Internets history, and searching for other clues of this addiction. I finally overcame that through therapy, I was already going for past issues and brought that up. Now my husband is porn free, and I don't have to babysit him any longer. We can actually enjoy being together! Good luck, hope you get to the bottom of this!!
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if you dont want that in your life tell him to stop or drop him.
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