How much alci does it take to end one's life?
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Although I dont condone suicyde (misspelled cause yahoo wont let), wouldnt it be better to do it AFTER your mother dies... imagine if the tables were turned and you lost her, what would you go through? Why would you want to put her in that situation? I know, it sucks having no friends. Right now, I have no friends. It feels like people dont want to have anything to do with me, I know thats what people are thinking... if they're even thinking of me at all. Furthermore, my neighbor (who I talk with everyday) keeps on saying "I would die if I was 25, living at home, with no degree"-knowing that what he's describing is me... just hanging around him made me more depressed. Recently Ive had to sever my contact with him because he was bringing me down... much like how other people are bringing you down. So do what I did, dont have anything to do with those people... if they make fun of you, just know that soon you wont have to deal with them and you can get a fresh start (assuming your in school and going to college, which is the best way). On top of me having no friends, I got diagnosed with schizophrenia last year, severe problems with memory (which makes it ten times harder for me to study)... and that is just the beginning of all of my problems. My problems are gigantic... yet I dont want to kill myself. There something in your thinking thats wrong, thats leading you towards wanting to kill yourself... its a mental problem, NOT the situation. Your moms sick... if my mom was sick (God for bid), I would spend every second of everyday with her, especially if she was sad. You dont want to regret the time lost if she were to die, and at anytime your mom could. And by the way, when I was in high school I was a flaming phaggot... now that Im in college I act masculine and because of religion, turned my back on being gay. The point is, when I was in high school I had loads of friends (I even got nominated 3 times and won for 'gossip king' lol)... now that Ive changed, I got no friends. But Im not affected, Im concentrating on myself and my family... cause thats what really matters. Its true that you should have some friends, but until then, until you make yourself better mentally, physically, and maybe even spiritually, you should concentrate on what really matters. Try think about why people dont like you; maybe a rumor got started and all your friends dont want a bad rep (which shows you they werent your friends in the first place)... to combat this, get a gurlfriend to show off... an ugly one if you cant get one your attracted to. Even if you dont like her (I know I know, its wrong and morally you shouldnt.. but ya gotta do what ya gotta do right), you'll kill two birds with one stone; you'll fix your rep, and you'll boost her confidence... you never know, you might end up liking her (or come up with a plan yourself). If you cant live for the present, live for the future... and then you'll eventually live in the present. btw it would be a very good idea to talk about this with a good psychologist (they have free services in most states) and maybe a psychiatrist. Didnt mean to talk your ear off, I just had to let that out before I get to your question. Dont kill yourself with alcohol unless you buy the strongest proof, and even then its not a garrantee and youll get sick... but try it, lots of people have. I watched a story where a guy drove his car off a cliff, he got pinned to the ground with broken legs... and two days later he was rescued by his friends (he tried to commit suicyde because he was stressed out about getting into college :I). The point is, when things seem hopeless and you want to take your own life... you can either stay on the same track, follow through, or try your BEST to make it better. Its all up to you... and I hope you choose the right way, because you should always give your future a chance.
just buy a bucnh of the large bottle im sure you will find out
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I feel very bad for your mother, and for you. I'm not going to report you, because it sounds like you're seriously planning to do this. All I can say is that I can't believe you would be willing to hurt your mother that way just to end your own pain. Ending yours begins hers. For a mother to lose a child is the most devastating thing in the world. If you are unhappy, I wish you would find another way to, at the very least, save her the heartache that you could never understand. Life is difficult at times, I know, I've been there. But, there is happiness around the corner - if you will have a little patience. What other people think or say doesn't matter. IT DOESN'T MATTER. Look at Paris Hilton. She's beautiful, skinny, extremely rich, and can have, or do, anything she wants. But, she still has to put up with people saying bad things about her. No one can control what other people say about them, but what you can control is whether or not you choose to listen to them. Why should their opinions matter so much? Are they so special that you would care what they think? There are so many things you could do to find happiness. You say you've lost all your friends. I'm very sure there are many other people out there that you could bond with that have the same problems as you. Everyone gets made fun of at one time or another, but if you feel like this happens to you all the time, believe me, you aren't the only one. Seek out new friends. Forget about what those jerks said about you, ignore anyone else who says things that are negative about you, and seek out what will make you happy. And please, spare your mother this pain.
I understand how hard it can be. When i was a kid people made fun of me all the time for being fat, then being hairy, then being too smart in some classes, then being to sensitive.
here's the thing, no matter how much it hurts, it will end. what helped me was to think about 10 years from that point. how much will it matter then? and think about something that happened 4 or 5 years ago that really hurt you at the time. how much do you feel that same heart crushing hurt? probably not as strong as you did before.
talk to people. if you are in school, talk to a counselor, if you are out of school, find a pastor of a good church to talk to. Usually talking to people helps you get perspective on your problems. even talk to your mom, i am sure she wants to help you, but she is frustrated and doesnt know how.
if you have been friends with the people who are making fun of you for a long time, tell them how you feel when they call you those names. they might not realize it's hurting you as bad as it is.
there ARE people who care about you and love you. there are people who want to help you. all you have to do is let them.
i have prayed for you while writing this message and commit your safety into the hands of the Lord.
The thing that kept me alive was thinking about the fact that my roommate would have to find me.
PLEASE call 1-800-SUICIDE right away.
You are not alone...Lot's of people have overcome and now live stable, productive lives.
Think of your mother. Please. It' not fair to her.
Okay, first of all, there is absolutely nothing nothing nothing good that can come of you ending your life. I am in my 40s and I can tell you there are a lot of worse things in life than someone thinking you look like a 'homo' and even none of those worse things is worth killing yourself. In high school I was terribly tormented every single day and only had one friend the whole time. He was only my friend because he was outcast too. I often thought I would kill myself, even tried it. Now I look back on all those horrible terrible things said and done to me and just think wow those jerks were really really pitiful. I know it feels real to you now, but these things pass. I know that words really do hurt, but there are no words anywhere at anytime that are worth dying over. That I promise you is true, and lots and lots of terrible things have been said to me. My own father said things to me like '***' and all of that. Stupid meaningless words is all they are. With all that said, it sounds like some crisis intervention might not hurt.
Hate to be totally honest...but you are an ungrateful bastard you know that.you are selfish because you care more about yourself than those who love you.and sounds like something bad happened in ONE NIGHT...and you're overreacting like this?? Please just think about all those poor people in third world countries who are starving and would do anything to be where you are...and here you are moaning on your comfortable chair in your comfortable room and nice computer.PLEEEZZ...GIVE ME A BREAK.you need to wake up and realize how good you have it...some people don't even have parents to love them...
just reconsider and if you're going to do it...at least donate your organs to someone who needs it.sheesh.
doesn't everyone else agree w/ me?
Call a suicide hotline NOW! Right now you have a reason to live - for your mother. Use that to hang on. Once you get stronger you will learn that your reason to live will be for yourself. Everything sucks right now. It feels hopeless. You feel like your drowning and gasping for air but the waves keep pulling you under. YOU HAVE TO FIGHT IT!!! Don't let it overtake you and win. You are strong enough to do this. You were given your life. You can make it whatever you want to. You need to find different people to hang out with that build you up instead of tearing you down. I seriously doubt you are an awful person... and how is your personality judged by your sexual orientation? Gay people are awful people? OF course not! These people are not worth your time - and are not worth your death!!! YOU ARE WORTH SO MUCH MORE! Don't let these people get to you! Things will get better. Sometimes you need to hit rock bottom before you can go up. Just keep holding on... keep fighting.. stay strong. Don't give up! Do it for you!!!!
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