Help me please?
Question:
what should i say to make her realise im not?
like i want her to see im not fine so she talks to me and then i will dare to confide in her.
ideas?
Answers:
You could write a letter
Act all sad and when she asks you if you are ok... just say actually im not. And then she will say whats wrong and you see where this is going dont ya?
If your too nervous to speak to her at first try writing her a note with whats going on and asking for her help and advice. Sometimes its easier to write it than say it at first face to face.
Seems like she already has in idea that something isn't quite right with you & has reached out to offer a listening ear. Go ahead & let her know. You already trust her or you wouldn't have considered talking to her. I believe you're just scared of letting out what's bothering you. Make sure you talk to her in a very private area. Her classroom after school hours might work. Or maybe a private room at your public library. Make enough time & make sure there won't be any interruptions. To start off you could say something like, "Ya know how when you asked me the other day if I was ok, well I'm not... " And let it go from there. Good luck!
i think what u should do is first of all to gain confidence in urself that u can talk to her becaz if u r arent cofident enough u wont be able to talk to her and doesnt matters how much space whether u get and once u have decided then u have made ur day and try to talk to her personally where no one else is there and either u could ge her phone no and talk to her on phone and be free to talk.
good luck
u may feel ashamed. talk to a person like in 1800 lifenet or me i love to help ppl out dogmicjoe@yahoo.com.
i have this teacher, who found out i have a self harming problem
but unlike you i didnt want her help
she never gave up on me and eventually i trusted her
i dont think its a good idea to, as the first answer says, act all sad
you should act how you feel
dont put on a show to get the teacher to ask you how you are
it sounds like you already trust her
so why dont you just go talk to her
she has already offered you help, so reach out and take it
there is only so much other people can do for you and then it really is up to you
i hope you find the strenght to ask her for help
good luck x
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