Why do people not commit suicide the correct way?
Question:
Lets say you are really really poor, and you can put food on the table and you can stress any more about it do you decide to take you own life, why wouldn't you at least PLAN OUT a bank robbery or some kind of crime or something to at least TRY to improve your situation and then if you are about to get caught THEN kill yourself.
or if your gf/bf breaks up with you and you cant go on any longer at least TRY to ask out everyone that is more attractive and cooler then them and then if you get turned down by them all THEN kill yourself...why just kill yourself outright?
Answers:
ever thought of becoming a psychologist
You're sayingf if someone is going to commit suicide, why don't they try to make their lives better by stealing, raping, etc?
Because there's no correct way to do something so stupid.
is there a correct way of doing suicide?
most do it for attention or they are to scarred to do it properly
i dont know... thnk god I dont have those kinda problems
most people who are in a suicidal state are NOT thinking clearly or logically, so for them to think the way you just did is not physically possible for them.
some people have depression so badly that no situation could be worse than the one they are in and suicide is the only way to stop the pain. it's sad and happens more often than it should.
People who kill themselves are generally in a frame of mind that doesnt include doing all kinds of bad things or trying their luck with the opposite sex etc they see no point in life - they might think that the world will be a better place without them in it etc
I dont think I have read a more misinformed serious question (if it is a serious question - if not you have chosen to be hurtful to those who have possibly had a family member do this - side note I havent but I do know a family who has)
I've heard somewhere that a failed suicide happens because most of the people that do this don't really want to die, they are just making a desperate attempt to get someone to take notice of them enough to help them.
Crazy way to think about it, but sure. Though i do agree with every1 else, i don't think there is a right way to kill yourself. I mean its the same sticky fate isn't it?
people that attempt to commit suicide and don't do it right, do it that way on purpose. they are so desperate for help and there non verbal crys for help go unnoticed or brushed off, they feel that this is the only way they have left to cry for help. its sad but true. if someone honestly has them self talked in to committing suicide, they don't talk about it, or joke, or hint about it. they just do it and they do it right. the ones that attempt just want help, and can be helped if they are not ignored.
People who commit suicide are terribly depressed , they are incapable are reasoning logically or they wouldn't kill their self, that's my opinion.
You're right. It does sound crazy.
Suicide is never correct or the right option. Almost everything can be endured and we can learn and prosper.
I hope this doesn't reflect any suicidal trends on your part. If it does, please seek treatment as soon as you can.
There's a correct way to commit suicide??...Reading your "solution" to the problem, it's obvious you've never been depressed. When you get older, perhaps you'll understand that people don't just "off" themselves for sport, they are very, very sad.
yeah i often thought this.damned good point...if im going to go im first going to go on a rampage and kill everyone whos done me wrong or pissed me off:-)
Stupid question.! If u r still in the right frame of mind, when u can plan a robbery, or do anything properly, u would not be able to commit suicide.
Fyi, I m presently in that frame of mind having suicidal thoughts everyday 4 the past few days due 2 a relapse in my depression. But I still haven't reach that stage where my normal human coping abilities is exceeded by the emotional pain that I m going thru.
I m telling u bcos not only am I in that frame of mind now, I've also gone thru it a few years back.
N 4 that matter, at that very instant when a person commited suicide, it is at that instant when his/her emotional pain hv exceeded his/her natural human coping abilities 4 survival.
ppl that are thinking of committing suicide well that answers it there i mean all they think about is how and when and where so that ppl will see and then think oh well maybe i should have gone to talk to her when she asked me to. the thing is when someone is about to kill them self sometimes the best thing to do is blame yourself because when say Suzy asked you to call her on Monday and you forgot and then some one finds her dead that night maybe the reason she called you was to talk about her problems because she was scared of what she wanted to do, what am trying to say is that a person that is about to kill themselves does not think in the things they can do to make there situation better but they call ppl before allot of the time because it is there cry for help but the problem now and days is no one wants to listen any more because we are all selfish
i agree that ppl should think more rational but when you are having problems that you have had for a long time and no one wants to talk to you then the best way out is death.
i have tryed it does not always turn out how u planned most people don't know what other people go threw
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