Keep looking for partners? do i need some pills or something to calm me down?

Question:

why do i keep looking for potential partners? everywhere i go all i do is look for women i can be partners with. my last relationship was one year ago, i think im perfectly fine too get a new partner, hell my ex can find one even while she was with me, i dont know what too do anymore, when i go look, nothing happens, when i chill and sit back someone comes but their few and far between, i havent had female attention in so long, so i just keep trying and trying and trying the same ineffective strategy over and over again, beacuse i cant take being single anymore, it feels like im going too explode if i have too wake up one more morning with no one there, then go too school with no one there, its fustrating when other people are soo happily in love that they just fluant it hold hands, and even a few months ago, i was in a empty computer lab and this couple decided too sit right next too me and make out. im seriously losing my pateince, i really want too be with someone.

Answers:
The first thing you need to do is relax! Calm down.
It's not the end of the world. Stop looking so hard. The right girl will come to you when you least expect it.
What you have to realize is, that you can be happy alone. You don't need a woman to be happy! Hell, they're trouble anyway. I say enjoy your freedom until your next relationship. Don't feel so bad alone! It's good to be alone sometimes. And when you see a public display of affection, just think 'that's nice.someday that will be me'. Don't be upset that you can't do it too right that minute. Like I said the right girl will come along. You really can't hurry love.
Just come to terms with yourself and what kind of person you are, realize that you're great alone, but a woman can/will make you better, but you don't need that, you don't strive for it it's just nice to have. You'll take things much easier if you realize this! Just relax and be you, your time will come, don't worry.

I think if you try to hard to find someone, you usually end up with the wrong person. Get involved in things that interest you and you will probably find lots of potential partners. Just have fun and enjoy life and before you know it, you'll find someone special.

You could well be coming across as too needy and putting off the girls, relax for goodness sake!
Take up some activities and meet more girls, don't try to move on them though...take time to get to know them and maybe you will find someone who is right for you. there are actually far worse things in life than not having a partner.

wow. slow down what's the rush. Like they say- there is someone for everyone.
Get involved in a volunteer organization like for animals or older people or any cause that you are interested in. then you will be exposed to people that have your same beliefs and values. No one ever found a true soul mate in a bar or at a dance.
Learn to appreciate you own company. Be happy with yourself first. No one is going to take a shine to you if you don't look happy inside.

Keep looking for partners? do i need some pills or something to calm me down?

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