Obsession? How do I fix it? Help?
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okay. This is the 3rd Q of yours i've answered. Go and check. I know you will. Your questions are a cry for help. So please listen to me.
Here is a word that I want you to hum and meditate away from your computer: moderation. That's what you need to focus on. I am serious here. Anything that one does excessively isn't healthy.
I read your profile a coupla days ago, and you are a high IQ individual trying to live in this world - your world. And it ain't easy for anybody who has passion like you obviously do. Among the advice that I gave you before was to try to adapt. It was the Zoloft question. I'm concerned about you and am trying to "tune-in" to you, but you're young and your energy is high, and kinda out of control now. Your energy is like a Natural Gas Well. One that has just been discovered, but not tapped and under control yet. That's where they ignite it and let it burn for a few weeks so as to prevent an explosion. They "bleed" it off for awhile to relive the initial pressure and make sure it's not just a small pocket of gas.
The heart racing thing is anxiety. It will take a few days (and nights), but try Square-breathing. That's where you breathe in for 4 seconds, hold for 4 seconds, breathe out for 4 seconds, and wait 4 seconds. Then repeat. Easy to master and will work everytime when those feelings of anxiety suddenly rise. You should feel relief and a feeling of comfort within 3-5 mins.
Anxiety becomes a physical thing & it's just your body talking to you, so listen to it. It's your only body and it will serve you in the most wonderful ways if you just let it.
The time thing is also something I would like to help you with. It is not natural to be awake when it's dark. i hope that someday your future self will relish the sunrise, and absorb the serenity of the morning hour.
Peace, David
okaii i say u try to do something else that obsesses u in a postitive way.
you are addicted to internet. me too. you have no problem with that. just make sure you don't stay online too long at once. It may harm your health. ^o^;
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