I find these things from masturbating? is it?
Question:
the changes are:
1.i think too much for a small thing
2.if i had enemy nature with one person, i think more of it(but i don't think more with tension in normal days)
3. even a slight negative thing(bad thing) in my life enriches at that time. that means, i think more and more about my past unfortunate incidents, unliked people
4.that means, i think lot and lot till i get headache, and i judge it with high difficulty. but again the though of bad incidents comes to my mind. i cant stop
5.i always scare how it will be if a certain person(bad) do like this to me. what i have to do. how to handle the situation. and so on.
and 6.headache like, but not headache it was
7.back pain
8.feeling low confidence
9.getting angry
10.feeling like falling body personality,etc
please help , serious question
Answers:
That's not a good thing at all, if anything...most of that should be the exact opposite.
thats not normal. u need to speak with someone
How you view Masturbation, may be a clue here.
If your social conditioning is such that it is considered an improper exercise, guilt feeling are associated with the act. They result in many of the syptoms you mention.
There could also be guilt and self-reproach associated with the stimulus for masturbation.
Depending upon the degree of exertion and the nature of the masturbation practiced, there could be different degrees of backache, from none at all to some pain after uncomfortable postures and exertion.
If there are no associated urinary symptoms, please be reassured that your symptoms can be easily eased by modifying your thoughts and methods.
What the hell kind of lotion are you using?!
It sounds as though you are feeling, perhaps unconsciously, guilt or shame about masturbating, and this manifests itself in the form of irritability, inadequacy, and muscle tension causing headaches. First of all, you need to fully accept that masturbation is not a sin, it is not wrong, and it is not shameful. It is a perfecly natural and normal response to a perfectly natural and normal phenomenon, that of sexual tension and the inborn need to procreate. This latter need is rationalized by humans because of our realization that, in practcial terms, we do not need to procreate endlessly to ensure the survival of the species. However, the physical urge is still there, and it should be taken care of periodically. So, think about this and accept that masturbation in private is completely normal and natural for teens and adults without an available partner to share sexual urges with.
It sounds like you get very anxious after masturbating, and these symptoms may be symptoms of that anxiety.
If this is the case, you need to re-address how you view masturbating. Does it make you feel guilty? Do you feel like you have 'sinned' or something similar afterwards?
Analysing your own opinions about masturbation will tell you why you are experiencing this anxiety afterwards.
Once you have identified the reasons behind your thoughts, you can challenge the views you are currently holding.
Masturbating, it is a natural act. if u think it as a bad thing, u will feel the things u r feeling. Don't think on this act. if u feel like mastrubating, do it, and forget it. But don't do it for many times. ever act has a limit. If u r in a limit, no problem. But if u r crossing the limits, nature will punish u.
e.g. snake poison, it is used as a medicine in very less quantity, but if the dose is increased, it acts as a poison and u die.
I think you are having a guilty conscience.This is the reason for your worries. Masturbation is a normal thing for most of the people even though many people do not discuss it openly due to their surroundings.Your physical problems may be partly due to this and partly due to medical reasons. First convince yourself that this is a natural thing with most of the people.Even after that your problem is not reducing do not hesitate to consult a doctor.
My anser is yes you can masterbait but not 24 to 48 hours) limit your self ones a week.
Thanks
Dude, stop for a while and don't do it as much after that. Maybe once every 10 days?
Check your activities by not performing the masterbating
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