Should i admit myself to the state hospital??
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A girl friend who isn't there for you or support you at the lowest time of your life especially when you're trying to make rightful decisions to help yourself isn't worth your time. Think about it, if she doesn't approve, is she better off having you commit suicide? If she really loves you and the both of you have a potential for long-term dating which can lead to marriage (...vowes: in sickness & in health...), she should actually be concerned and involved in helping you get the help you need. She might actually be adding to your problems by giving you more stress to worry about. You don't need that right now. Sit her down and talk to her if she can't see things your way or you guys can't find a middle ground to agree on, then she has to go.
As for your own health, I would recommend that you stop getting drunk. This is one of the reasons why you're confused, don't know what to do, more stressed & suicidal and can't make decisions (although you know your choices well). By doing this you'll not only benefit your health, you'll be sober enough to make wise decisions based on the situation you're in and how things are.
Also you're probably feeling useless right now which is probably one of the reasons why you're getting drunk in the first place. Getting back to the state hospital will not help you at all as you already know from being there many times as you mentioned already. I believe that you're depressed and it has been going on for a while. A psychologist or a psychiatrist might be able to help you get to the root of your depression if you want to know what is causing it if you don't already know. This alone isn't enough though, because all they would most likely do is put you on some prescibed medication. While this might help a little, you'll become dependent upon it and so forth. I tell you this from experience first hand. I've been depressed all my life and started to notice it at the age of 16. I've gone through enough and I've never found a solution until resently.
I believe that God's extending His hand to you to help you as He's doing to me. Come to Him as you are, repent and be saved. He is waiting on you to make your move. He'll not only heal you from your pains but will as well renew you entirely. Won't you come to Chirst today? I'll pray for you and I wish you all the best. Remain blessed.
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Forget your girlfriend - go get the help you need.
I think anytime that you have to seriously contemplate that question then your answer is YES
if you are truly feeling homicidal than yes, so what if your girlfriend says she will break up with you, she obviously doesnt want you to get help. if you TRULY feel the need than do it.
wow yes and i mean quickly
You should get some help, and mabey a girlfriend who is supportive.
you need help but I don't know where you should get it, you need to stop drinking, I did and I'm so glad I did.
Call 911 and tell them what you're feeling. You obviously need some sort of help.
I would go.she is not a very good gf if she does not want you to go to get yourself better. You need to focus on getting yourself better and she will have to just deal with it because you always need to focus on your health first not what anyone else thinks.
u need to see a Dr. for sure. As far as the GF goes I would dump her, because it sounds like she doesn't care anyway
You need to go to an Emergency Room and tell them about your suicidal/homicidal thoughts. Call 911 right now and as calmly as you can, get in the ambulance when it arrives. Tell them the truth about your mental state. Get the help you need.
if your girlfriend cares about you she will understand. you need to go get help before you make a decision you cant take back.
remember, there are a million tomorrows ahead of you, and things WILL GET BETTER. god bless you, i hope you find the help that you need.
Well, if you feel that way then I guess you know what you should do. But I must warn you, if you are not 100% you are going to kill yourself or someone else, and you admit yourself under those circumstances, they will keep you. If they have too they will get a court order and you will be there till they think it's safe for you to leave.
They will keep you highly medicated, and it will suck. You will be forced to go to groups, and other time wasting mumbo jumbo. I've been there.
i found out i was molested by my father, and admitted myself, and it wasn't the first time. They had me on so many drugs I couldn't get out of bed. I wasn't suicidal, or homicidal and not a threat to anyone. So in your case, you will go thru hell in there. Be certain before you do anything.
well stoner. im thinking you should take a nap. wake up and see how u feel. the hospital right now is not a good thing. unless u call a cab. and ur girlfriend is dumb she should be wanting to help u YOU be the one to let her go
Sounds like a good time to check in...
Or you can look into the thought of your gf and realize that she sounds much more fu*ked up than you.
If you do anything stupid, don't forget the note!
do whatever feels right to you, if you think it'll help you, do it. if your gf really loves you, she'll understand.
get rid of that girl. she's just helping to bring you down. get the professional help you deserve and need.
Your life is worth living and you should never feel that you want to take anothers life. There is someone in your life that values you. The girlfriend is not being supportive of you. You can do better than her if she will not stand beside you then she is NOT what you need. Call this number
1-800-784-2433 They are professionals and they can and will help you.
Do NOT act on your emotions at this time by involving someone else or causing harm to them. Think about your consequences and a life behind bars, or if you are thinking murder suicide what if you some how survived and had to live as a vegestable. I have seen this in my line of work and you do not want to do it !
Just know there is support oout there for you all you have to do is reach out your hand and take hold of that helping hand.
forget the girlfriend...if she really cared she wouldn't be a ***** about that. i think you should get help FAST
First off, don't worry about your girlfriend or what she thinks right now. You need to be worried about yourself. She is obviously not the voice of reason here. Call 911 and tell them that you are having suicidal and homicidal thoughts and that you need someone to come pick you up because you're drunk. YOU CAN'T DRIVE ANYWHERE so please dont try. You need to admit yourself info the hospital and get some professional help. If you want it and if you're open to it, they can and will help you. Whatever you do, please do not take your life or anyone else's. This may or may not be a joke, but for what it's worth, it's real to me. Call and ambulance and get yourself some help. You can do it. Be safe. I wish you the best of luck.
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