Why do I think everybody hates me?
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It sounds like low-self-esteem and confidence.
i think its because you have low self esteem i used to feel that every1 hated me too. then i started hanging out with ppl who bring up my confidence.
how old are you?
start loving yourself first.. do something that will help you feel accomplished. it can be painting a flowerpot you bought back, playing a game and accumulating points, going to the gym and feeling good with your sore muscles. lol
:) i do not think you are bad. if you are bad, would you care what others think of you? no you wont. so dont worry! :)
Maybe because everyone does hate you?
Low self esteem. could 1. Lack on confident. Everyone couldn't hate u everyone doesn't know u.
I'm hopeful that just by reading over what you wrote in this question, you will see that it really makes no sense. You say you've lived a 'fairly long life', so perhaps this dim view of yourself was placed in you while you were growing up. Perhaps you came from a family in which you were not the 'golden' child and were outshined by a sibling? Perhaps you did some little kid things that were over-reacted to by your parents and that has set up this self-defeating attitude. I don't think the worst of you; on the other hand, perhaps if I knew you better I would not be friends with you. Perhaps I would. But that would have as much to do with my personality in your eyes as it would my perception of you. You will find there will be people you simply don't like. That's okay; you don't have to do anything pro-active to hurt anyone, just move on! There are gazillions of people in this world; some will be like-minded and find friendship with you, others will move on. In any event, it's a two-way thing. Cut yourself a break -- just get out there and smile and assume you are a good person with much to offer, which I suspect is the case.
You know toot, maybe you are just a different bird, an original, and most people can't handle it when you are like that...people are cold and calloused these days, and unless you are rich, eighteen, and a phoney, they don't seem to have any use for you..sad too, because there are so many wonderful people out there, if people would get past judging them, and start knowing them for the wonderful people you are...I don't think that they think you are bad,...and the hell with them if they do
I really know what you're talking about
Adults more than anything think the worst of me. I constanly think I'm hated. It might be as well too, but it doesn't really matter just don't do anything that may make them think that! Prove them wrong. Otherwise just ignore, thats what i try to do. But it gets difficult
Hey toot, I know just what you mean. I feel the same way. People who don't even know me don't like me. I am always treated like sh*t, always stepped all over and pushed around. I also always feel that whenever something goes wrong, even if I didn't have anything to do with it at all, it is my fault. I am so incredibly depressed and sad I just wish I would drop dead. I'm sorry you are feeling this way. Low self-esteem and self-confidence seem to be a factor here, for both of us.
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