I really need some help...?
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YOu mentioned that she has suddelny changed. Do you mean she has just changed? If so maybe something bad happened in her life. And she is upset. Is she your girlfriend? You never once said that. Maybe she is concered with your actions.
My suggestion would be to tell her your feelings.
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depression sucks, believe me, I know. If it is an option, I suggest transferring. It is hard to go on and have to see her everyday. try and tell her that you are upset she won't hangout anymore. she what her reaction is. ask her why she won't. talk to her about it. she may have reasons and they may be substaintial. it may hurt, but you need to get anwsers to try and move on. don't get your hopes up when you talk to her. go into it as a win-win situation. if she hangs out again, then HORRAY, if not, then you got to now why and you can now move on. best of luck.
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Things like this happen all of the time. To get over your depression, maybe you should seek help from a therapist or talk to someone who can relate to your situation. Please remember that things like this happen almost everyday. It's not dumb. Just try to speak to someone to relieve your stress. I do hope that you feel better.
Depression comes as the upper brain erases a belief or expectation in life. There is a waste chemical that goes to the medulla controlling your heart rate and the slow heart and breathing hurts. Don't expect too much for one girl . Have a spare tire before you get a flat next time.
Oh you will be ok. sometimes we all go through these things with people that we care for. Maybe you can since that she did not like you as much as you liked her. Well then you are better off my friend. Who needs to waste thier feelings on someone that does not care back? come on, life is way to short for this stuff. You can find a nice girl that will like you back as much as you like her.You will see. Don't beat yourself up either. Like I said everyone feels the same way you are feeling right now. You are not alone. I have been in the same boat before and I got over it really fast when I seen that the guy wasn't into me.lol I ran away and did you know the harder you are to get sometimes for whatever reason. Girls seem to like you more? Don't ask me why? I just don't understand human natue that much but, it is true. Maybe you need to treat her the way she has been treating you and see how she likes that? In the mean time have yourself some fun. Go out with some friends to take your mind off this girl. Meet some other girls out and about and try to talk to one of them and you just might see that the other girl was pretty shallow to treat you nice at first and then turn around and dog you in the end. So get going and be happy. Get yourself out of that depression! Pray to God as often as you can. In the storm Jesus is with you no matter what we go through! You can do this! I know that you will be ok. God Bless You and please ask another girl out soon and maybe find a new job also. You'll be fine soon. I know it!
well there are other girls out here who will get you
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