Suicide yes or not?


Question:
I'm 26 yo, 10 years I suffer depression - at least so sais doctors - 10 years I've been visiting specialist, drinking pills, asking people and family. the situation got worse every day... so is it time to plan a suicide ( I take life with "irony")

Answers:
Life is a fight, a constant one. Things may not be easy, or never be easy, but that is the way things are. Suicide would be giving up. You might say, oh, yes, but that is what I want, to give up. But wrong wont become right with death. Things will continue the same. The only difference is that people will miss you and feel sorrow. As hard as things might be, and no matter how alone and how lost you feel, always hang on. Always fight back, cause life is a miracle. One day you will die, and who knows if there is actually life after death? One day your dead and might never live again. Or maybe when you die you just watch your life over and over. Is this what you'd like to see? Don't give up. Fight for your life, not against it. You can do it. You can win your life, because it's yours, and no one can win in your place


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Look man, depending on what you are depressed on it isn't worth it really. You only live once, enjoy life to your fullest, even though it may be hard for you at times. Trust me I stress all the time and I am very depressed, I have no energy anymore because of it. Ive tried getting help but nothing helps me either, but somehow im trying to hold on, its wierd, maybe something will work out for you, and maybe something will work for me someday as well.
Take care
Not what's the use, There are people out there in worse shape then you...
NOOOOOOOOO are you crazy suicide would tremendously hurt your family
no don't .I've thought about it a lot several attempts but I've come to the realization I just can't do anything right .snap out of it friend
life is a beautiful thing, don't throw your's away! maybe you need a change in lifestyle. maybe a new job or even a new start somewhere else! i would physically talk to someone. don't take any bad advice online.
it's never time for suicide. i know life sucks sometimes, but you are only 26, things could turn around for you tomorrow and if you ended your life, you would never know that.
I'm not going to tell you to go see a shrink, or take more pills, or try help groups, although all of those are good ideas, but I'm sure you have heard all of that many times before. what i can tell you is...things are not good now...but they will get better. i promise. i was having the same thoughts you are having a few years ago.i have no family left...so it was very hard not having family to lean on...but i put on "my big girl pants" . life is tough...but i got tougher...and i kicked that depressions *** !!!!!! believe in yourself and you can kick *** too !!! i know you can do it.
So how is it going to get better if u kill yourself dont you know life goes on whether u are here or not People will still be breathing and u wont I dont understand this whole suicide thing U have to really understand whats the problem and move away from it Life is precious and u only live once...Have u tried going to church or reading the bible...Jesus gave up his life for us and u just going to take yours away because??Appreciate life...
God gave you life, why would you want to take it.?Think of all the people out there who would love to be 26, instead of the usual 80s. Maybe your medication is making you feel this way,Look around you at all the beautiful things in this life....We love you.and You hang in there. tomarrow is another beautiful day.
I don't think that is the answer. You are NOT a waste of flesh. What made you like this:? Going for suicide will just be an escape of your problems and presure. I know it gets worse as each day pass but you are just letting it kill you. Beat you. You should fight it! Think carefully for a solution. Know more on yourself and what turned you like this. Once you know it, get into action! Going for suicide will be worse for your family and friends(if you don't know that). So don't.
reach out to someone suicide is never the answer
There is no Lock that is made without the Key that fitts in and unlocks it. For every problem there might be...these always an answer. Just remember not to reach for the Master Key to open each and every door. Deal with each problem Accordingly and as for Drugs, I wont go there coz we all know Its a No-No. Life is worth Fighting for and God Provided us with a special warpon for that...Ur InnerStrength.
Oh goodness. Suicide is not the answer. I'll tell you what you need..God in your life.
It may not get better but have you accomplished anything. I would kill myself but I don't want my life to stand as being a complete waste so I go on. You must have things to do. I didn't want to die a virgin so I put off calling it quits but I since accomplished that goal now I have others things like riding a harley from coast to coast. Maybe all these doctors and possibly your family are hindering you from getting done with what you need to.
no do not. call 1800 suicide. try suicide.com, suicide.org, and i can help u thru this dogmicjoe@yahoo.com.
Dear Tom, The Barrow Wight says to use the multidimensional approach to treating depression, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris... on page 2
It's a common thing to turn to excessive or destructive behavior, such as over-eating, in order to distract ourselves from painful memories and despair.

I also was severely depressed and sometimes still am. I also lost all my friends when I was very young and when I went to a "center" instead of a high school I only made two friends, and neither was very good, although one of them was somewhat decent. I also lost them in a few years.

These are the typical reasons for a person becoming depressed and turning to suicide:

1. Not getting your way. For example: A non-Christian being prevented by a Christian from getting something they want because that Christian is obeying God. For example say your friend has just become a Christian and you haven't and still hate God (whether you believe you do or not), and you want him to spend his excess money and watch some time-wasting movie with you but he won't because he's decided to spend his excess on spreading the gospel: You will become depressed at either the wrong idea that he hates you or angry that he is hating the things you love. Basically it's anger at God that leads to depression.

2. When a Christian sees others breaking God's laws, especially when they break the more important ones deliberately, and often. Scripture gives us some insight into one ancient Christian's emotional life, whose name was Lot:

"he rescued Lot, a righteous man, who was distressed by the filthy lives of lawless men (for that righteous man, living among them day after day, was tormented in his righteous soul by the lawless deeds he saw and heard)" - 2 Peter 2:7-8

3. Others mistreating / being unloving to us.

4. False thinking such as thinking we can't do much to help anyone else in life or, after God has forgiven you, wrongly thinking that he hates you, and losing faith in his love for you.

5. Worshiping things other than God:

"The sorrows of those will increase who run after other gods." - Psalm 16:4

You may not be worshiping "gods" however, if you are not worshiping God, or worshiping other men, metaphorically or literally, more than and especially, in hatred against him, then you will become more and more filled with sorrow.

If you have not yet asked God to forgive you with sincere sorrow towards him for breaking his laws with the desire to stop breaking them, then according to Scripture you will not live forever with God nor will your mind become perfectly logical, but will remain in a tormented and chaotic state. To solve this problem you must not trust in any opinion over God's facts. For example if he said, "Do not lie" but in your opinion it's good to lie now and then, don't trust your opinion. Yes, it is good to lie in some cases for quick profit, but God will punish you for it, and if you are not forgiven yet, and you end up dying before you are forgiven, you will be punished forever for it.

He who trusts in himself is a fool, but he who walks in wisdom is kept safe. - Proverbs 28:26

You should also not listen to those who are not forgiven for spiritual / moral wisdom:

"He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm." - Proverbs 13:20

That is common sense advice as well. For example say you want help understanding a hard math problem, are you going to get the advice of a hateful impatient idiot who doesn't understand math?

If a person truly wants to know and understand the God of the Bible in order to please rather than find fault with him, God will allow it and will let you know how to secure your future forever.

In order to get eternal life and an ever-increasingly logical mind you must also humble yourself rather than arrogant and stubborn towards God:

"whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted." - Matthew 23:12

So, willingly, without hatred, do what God asks you to.

Another problem may be your diet and comfort level. For example if you have high arches, the pain from walking around and not having good arch support may be causing you to be easily irritated. Or your sleep may be hindered by light coming in from under a door, a clock, a humming sound coming from a computer or clock, irritating bed sheets, or an uncomfortable pillow or bed.

6. If you are not getting enough saturated fat you may have poor health and feel miserable, and so again, will be easily angered. It's a myth that saturated fat is bad for you. Although something with saturated fat in it my spoil more quickly, it is still healthy to eat it when it is fresh. All those "skim" products are inferior foods to those with the saturated fat in them. A quick fix is to start eating hamburgers, whole milk (goat milk is the best known), whole yogurt, coconut milk, steak with the fat on, and salmon.

I don't know if worrying directly leads to being depressed, but it clearly can, since all sins eventually lead to extreme sadness. Worrying is when you don't trust God and then start being afraid of bad things happening to you.

About worrying Jesus said: "don't worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? ho of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? So do not worry, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?' For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." - Matthew 6:25-34

Read more of what God has to say at http://romans916.com/answers.rtf/...
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u must not be serious to give such incomplete info on your problems and expect someone to decide whether or not suicide is right for you. Even if it was the right option, very few people are capable of going through with killing themself. Rarely is it the best course of action unless maybe 2/3 of your daily existance is torture. What prevents me from killing myself is knowing that if i cant make it in life i might not be able to handle the after life as well. It could be that we have it better among the living.
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