Do you ever go through periods where it seems like every decision you make is wrong?
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DRAGON 2008
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Well, there was a period were I made a lot of wrong decisions, but I've since turned those wrongs into rights.
Just take control of your own life, and listen to yourself. And you'll find your happiness and peace.
Be proud to be who you are.
I think everyone goes through times when they feel like they've made several bad choices in a row. However, I think everyone makes some good and some bad choices, and I'm sure you can think of some good choices you've made recently with some effort.
I might even suggest that asking for help on here was a good choice, because you will get a lot of feedback from various people, some of whom have been in your shoes.
If things are really getting you down, try and talk with a friend. If you can't talk to a friend, or your family, then talk to a professional.
Good luck to you,
Dana
All of us might feel like that sometimes. But if you're honest with yourself you'll find the intentions you had where not for sure that bad and in there you'll recover your inner strength. Maybe your most dear ones are not totally aware on your intentions and if so, quietly and being friendly with you and them talk about it. Maybe your bad expectations will disappear and you'll get more support than you've ever imagine possible - it's my wish. Good luck!
Toota,
sounds serious, one of those decisions that really get all of us physically, psychologically spiritually, you name it.
Please include two things: your own heart - its the best filter on importance things have - and the ones that you love and that love you more that they can say.
Because is your heart that never lets you down if included in it. I believe
No one ever does everything always.
Look to see what decisions you made that are the right ones. Sometimes, it is only a matter of opinion, or choice.
Where facts are concerned, go on the best judgement you can make at the time after considering the facts available.
Should other facts be discovered later, be willing to change your thinking. Open mindedness.
You mean like.now? It's called "depression". Counseling/therapy will probably help.
I certainly have gone through those.
Not any more. The reason, is because if I need to make a big decision (one that will impact me or my family for a long time, or cost a lot of money), I ask myself a couple of questions:
1. What is my motivation? Will it make my life or someone else's life better or do I know it will cause harm?
2. What is the worst possible thing that can happen and would I be able to live with it or fix it?
The third thing, which is my personal motto: Always have a plan B.
It's the tough part of maturing.
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