As you can see I am a twelve year old and have a serious problem?
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why do you even cry?
stop being so emo and grow up!
your in h.s. already time for the real world
none of that jr. high b/s
i dont understand how a twelve year old guy can just enter highschool.
You don't say why school gets you so depressed. Are you bullied? I am glad you are going to see a psychiatrist and will hopefully get some help. A lot of people experience intense sadness around your age. I can tell you life seems to get better as we get older. You will probably get calmer and happier as you get older.
But if you are thinking about suicide you need to get some help now. Please never never do anything like that. That is never the solution. There are many people out there that can help you and care about you. Sometimes when we are depressed it is difficult to see that but help is OUT THERE for you. Good luck
i recommend u better go and see a your family doctor or a psychiatrist and tell your parents to help you out and spend more time with family and friends...maybe hang out @ malls with frenz on weekends..and go to your school counselor and ask her/him to help you make a daily schedule 2 manage your work
make a personal dairy and pour your thoughts (all that u wanna write dont try to hide anything 4m urself cos u cant!!) in at night and every time u fill in try reading wat u had wirtten before and think over it!!
All the best!!
It sounds like your mom does not understand what you are going through. If possible you should sit down with her and have a serious conversation about how you feel and what is happening to you. Try to have both of your parents let you talk and get out what you want to say before they respond with anything. I think this would help both of you. If they wont do so, write them a letter. That way everything will be written and they wont be able to interupt what your saying and you wont have to defend every statement. Also you said that you are artistic and poetic. Maybe drawing or writing about your experiences will help you learn to express your self and release some of the built up stress. Its good that you are going to see a psychiatrist because they would be the peopel who could help you the most. When you see the psychiatrist ask him/her what you can do with your abilities that will help you cope with your problems.
I wish you the best of luck. Hope everything turns out ok.
ok listin...and please i cant spell so bare with me..ur depressed theres a reason...but u might not know it.i no how it feels when u dont wanna go back to school i have anxiey and deppression and ocd.. and my parents forced me everymoring.to go to school im 14 and they would have to push me out the door crying each moring for months id get to school.and i would be misserible.all day..the worst feeling ever i remeber sometimes just wishing i would drop dead in school it was so bad.finally they took me out of school when i got my docter to recomend it...so listen when u got to the docter...phycaritst (wow i can spell)explain to him what ur feeling...if its anything like mine i no it hurts...u just have to bare with it i dunno if this is ur first visit to the docter but if it is he might put u on some meds that u need to give time to work.but i dunno if ur in school now but if u havent started yet...ask ur mom and dad that mabye u can do an online highschool progam..thats what i do and is so much more easy and stress free go to www.grace Acadmey.com its a wonderful school.i hope i helped ..i no its hard expecially being a kid...all u want is to be happy..im soo sorry for what ur going through and if u need to talk email me at claporte13@aol.com
i have to say that you are very articulate with words for being only twelve. if you feel suicidal then you need to tell your parents as hard as that might be. if that doesn,t help then you may need to speak with a guidence counsler. and that might get you parents to come around. just remember that suicide is a permanent answer to a temperary problem what ever that might be, the fevers and headaches usually go hand in hand with depression so that too is normal and i understand your not wanting to go to school so emotional and high school can be brutal if you feel that you need to expidite your treatment however then tell someone tomarrow. i hope that this helps and good luck i think that you will be fine
hullo
your account tends to be dramatised,that is the way artists feel always, all the same,if you are truly depressed then you should seek psychiatric help.
pay a visit to the school psychologist, it would be a good start.
Dr solo
Hai. I understand how you feel. I was melancholic girl once. And that's what melancholic people do.
I thought nobody understand me. How to get me out from this, well, i read many book, and pray a lot. This book help me to understand myself : Personality Plus, by Florence Littauer and bible.
Try to talk to your parent or your teacher if your parent don't want to listen. Don't aggravate your feeling, but you better tell them about your suicide urge.
Pray.
There is probably someone at your school that can help you out. A psychologist or counselor is probably available. If there is nobody at school find a teacher that you are comfortable with and ask them about other resources in your area. There are also a variety of on-line resources. I would suggest starting with someone at school. But no matter what find help. Depression is a very serious thing but it is something that many people deal with successfully.
Immediately visit the advisor in school and tell him/her about your problem and seek advice. Tell all. Don't hold back. Your future depends on it. The advisor may have you speak to the school nurse to see how bad you really are. If your parents will not help have the people in school help you, then tell your mother what you did. Convince her that this is serious as far as you are concerned and you need help NOW.
Be strong and convincing. Good luck. Incidentally, I had problems when I was a kid in school and I finally got help and it saved me from disaster.
School just isn't the place to be for some people. Some can get by just fine, while others have the hardest time dealing. Trust me, I've been there. There are people who want to pick on you and take advantage when you're the sensitive type. My senior year was probably the worst out of all of them I just felt so sad and alone...But when I went home, sometimes I'd write and draw like you. It's really cool to keep things like that because you can amaze yourself on how talented you are, looking back!
I mostly hung out with my cousin. He was one of my few saviors at the time. I didn't really start having fun until I was just fresh out of high school and I started experiencing different things with some of my friends.
Do you have friends? Are you a loner? It's OK (I guess) if you don't have any friends but that will force you to have to be strong and stand on your own two feet.
Overall though, I think you are too young to be going through all of this drama. And if my mother yelled at me for nearly no reason, I think I would stay with an aunt or something. Are you close with any of your cousins? If so, maybe you need to plan a couple of sleepovers until you see that psychiatrist?
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