How can I seemingly disappear from society without commiting suicide?
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Volunteer for a stint in Baghdad.
Move out of state.
Move?
Become agoraphobic.sigh.
Call the Samaritans, call someone. Talk to a therapist - whatever it needs. You shouldn't feel this way. Just think if you were to go either route how your loved ones would miss you, and the grief and hurt you would cause to them.
talk to a therapist or change your name
I'm the same way, although I have attempted suicide multiple times (first when I was 7yrs old) and I am 16 years old. I suggest homeschool online (like myself) and wait a while to get a job. This way you're always alone. If thats what you want.
Why feel guilty about being alive? You didn't ask to be born. Yes, society can be rough, so why not take a break from it? Spend time alone, but don't shut yourself inside... Get out, go for a walk... See the beauty of the natural world that is right here before your eyes. If there's something you did that has made you upset, why not try to make amends for it? If it's too late for that, then at least try to forgive yourself... No amount of feeling can change what has already happened... Simply learn the lesson that life has taught you and get on with life. Life is a cycle of never-ending lessons... Not all lessons come easily, in fact, some of the greatest lessons are also the most difficult ones... Good luck!
So, life sucks?
At least you knew enough to post this under Mental Health. This means that you are not crazy. Crazy people seldom know that they have a problem. You do know this.
What can you do about it? This depends upon where you are located. Different places have different resources. One resource that is common is other people. Talk to someone about how you feel.
So you can't talk to your folks and have no friends or siblings. Even if you don't go to church, you can usually walk into one and find someone to talk to.
Even the most rural counties have a Social Welfare Department. You might not need a shrink, but it sounds like some form of counseling might help. A little bit of guilt never killed anyone. Too much guilt, especially about being alive is never a good thing.
Depression is common but treatable. You might want to start with one of the sites below:
you are only 15. things will not always be this way. whatever you are feeling and going through, i promise you, it is not permanent! you hold the keys to your own prison!!
Keep to yourself, become a recluse. Start not socializing. Wear black clothes, and lipstick, get lots of piercings and tattoos...
Seriously, maybe you are feeling really depressed Hun. It helps to receive counseling and medication.
You should really discuss this with someone that you trust. You should talk to them about how you feel and why. Trust me, you don't want to take your life. You have your whole life ahead of you. Who knows what the future holds. You're only 15. It won't be like this forever. Just talk to someone. If they really care about you, they will try to help you out because the last thing they would want would be to lose you.
But to answer your question, don’t talk to anyone, stay in you room, and avoid everyone. Don’t order anything, or go out to eat. ECT
But my thoughts, for help, if you want them.
If you want to kill yourself that is one sign of depression or biological illness. Depression is one of the most prevalent and serious mental illnesses in the world today. Approximately one in four women and one in eight men experience at least one bout of depression in their lifetime. Depression is a biological illness, one that often has a devastating impact on behavior, thoughts and feelings. Although depression can be triggered or worsened by specific events or problems as well as depressive thought patterns and personality traits. Everyone has a time when we are down and is felling blue. But if that continue for more then a mouth or so. Then you are depress.
If your always sad.
If your always tire.
If you have thought of suicide.
If you away feeling guilty.
If you stop enjoying the things you use to do or you don’t seen to have fun any more.
If you have lose or gain weigh more then your body weight
sleeping patter Change, sleeping to much or to little.
Put your self down.
Self hate.
Withdrawn from friends and family.
Crying for nothing.
Feel like crying all the time or cry all the time.
Feeling of emptiness.
Don’t complete important taste.
always have argument with love one and close friends.
These are sign of depression, if you have one or tow of these, it dose not mean you are depress. Talk to your doctor about it
If you are depress you are most likely to experience a setback of problem in your life. Most likely one of the first things on your mind is what other people will think. You may believe that others take pleasure in your problems, that they feel sorry for you, or that they are otherwise judgmental of you. Unfortunately, this attitude can lead you to feel worse about your problems than you need to. It also means that you may be less likely to seek comfort from others when you are in emotional pain.
So I think you should take the time to talk to someone about how you feel, and get yourself so treatment. It dose not mean that you are weak, but it dose mean that you are taking control of your life and dealing with the problem. I am depress and there where even a time when I wanted to kill myself.
I was so depress that I just didn't want to live any more, I started burning myself, just to see if I was alive. I had started smoking pot, to make me feel better. But all it dose it take up my money and made me more depress.
But once I talk to my grandmother about it. She decide to get me into treatment. Now I feel better then I have ever been in years. So if I can do it you can too. But you might be thinking what do I know, or we are not th same. But I know that I was depress and wanted to kill myself, that something me and you might have in commend. We might not be the same person, but I know that I wanted to kill myself and I couldn't and you did the same. I know that we have been thought the same thing, wanting to kill ourselves, feeling sad. But it just that I got treatment and you didn't. We might not have the same problem, but we both know that we are depress. Well I not sure for you or if you got treatment yet. All I can say is get yourself some help. Killing yourself dose nothing and solve nothing. you will just be dead and you will still feel the same way.
By Dr. Rose (yea right lol)
You are suffering from depression and should ask for help. I know how you feel as I spent most of my teenage years in my room if I wasn't at school. There is help but it wouldn't be an over night thing it will take time and effort but it's worth it. I know that it seems like things will never get better but they do, You need to talk to your parents and gee about getting a therapist who can help you get therapy and also put you on medications. I have a daughter who's also fifteen and she's on meds for depression, anxiety and migraine headaches. They have helped her stabilize and this past school year for the first time she was on the honor roll the whole school year for the first time in all of the time she's been in school. I think it was because she was feeling good about herself and because her medications helped her to not be anxious and she was able to concentrate and yes she's tried to commit suicide that was the first time she was put on medication. at age 10. Talk to your parents or someone at school to make sure you get the help that you need or if no one there will listen to you call your doctor and they have a legal obligation to make sure that you get some help.
It's a common thing to turn to excessive or destructive behavior, such as over-eating, in order to distract ourselves from painful memories and despair.
I also was severely depressed and sometimes still am. I also lost all my friends when I was very young and when I went to a "center" instead of a high school I only made two friends, and neither was very good, although one of them was somewhat decent. I also lost them in a few years.
These are the typical reasons for a person becoming depressed and turning to suicide:
1. Not getting your way. For example: A non-Christian being prevented by a Christian from getting something they want because that Christian is obeying God. For example say your friend has just become a Christian and you haven't and still hate God (whether you believe you do or not), and you want him to spend his excess money and watch some time-wasting movie with you but he won't because he's decided to spend his excess on spreading the gospel: You will become depressed at either the wrong idea that he hates you or angry that he is hating the things you love. Basically it's anger at God that leads to depression.
2. When a Christian sees others breaking God's laws, especially when they break the more important ones deliberately, and often. Scripture gives us some insight into one ancient Christian's emotional life, whose name was Lot:
"he rescued Lot, a righteous man, who was distressed by the filthy lives of lawless men (for that righteous man, living among them day after day, was tormented in his righteous soul by the lawless deeds he saw and heard)" - 2 Peter 2:7-8
3. Others mistreating / being unloving to us.
4. False thinking such as thinking we can't do much to help anyone else in life or, after God has forgiven you, wrongly thinking that he hates you, and losing faith in his love for you.
5. Worshiping things other than God:
"The sorrows of those will increase who run after other gods." - Psalm 16:4
You may not be worshiping "gods" however, if you are not worshiping God, or worshiping other men, metaphorically or literally, more than and especially, in hatred against him, then you will become more and more filled with sorrow.
If you have not yet asked God to forgive you with sincere sorrow towards him for breaking his laws with the desire to stop breaking them, then according to Scripture you will not live forever with God nor will your mind become perfectly logical, but will remain in a tormented and chaotic state. To solve this problem you must not trust in any opinion over God's facts. For example if he said, "Do not lie" but in your opinion it's good to lie now and then, don't trust your opinion. Yes, it is good to lie in some cases for quick profit, but God will punish you for it, and if you are not forgiven yet, and you end up dying before you are forgiven, you will be punished forever for it.
He who trusts in himself is a fool, but he who walks in wisdom is kept safe. - Proverbs 28:26
You should also not listen to those who are not forgiven for spiritual / moral wisdom:
"He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm." - Proverbs 13:20
That is common sense advice as well. For example say you want help understanding a hard math problem, are you going to get the advice of a hateful impatient idiot who doesn't understand math?
If a person truly wants to know and understand the God of the Bible in order to please rather than find fault with him, God will allow it and will let you know how to secure your future forever.
In order to get eternal life and an ever-increasingly logical mind you must also humble yourself rather than arrogant and stubborn towards God:
"whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted." - Matthew 23:12
So, willingly, without hatred, do what God asks you to.
Another problem may be your diet and comfort level. For example if you have high arches, the pain from walking around and not having good arch support may be causing you to be easily irritated. Or your sleep may be hindered by light coming in from under a door, a clock, a humming sound coming from a computer or clock, irritating bed sheets, or an uncomfortable pillow or bed.
6. If you are not getting enough saturated fat you may have poor health and feel miserable, and so again, will be easily angered. It's a myth that saturated fat is bad for you. Although something with saturated fat in it my spoil more quickly, it is still healthy to eat it when it is fresh. All those "skim" products are inferior foods to those with the saturated fat in them. A quick fix is to start eating hamburgers, whole milk (goat milk is the best known), whole yogurt, coconut milk, steak with the fat on, and salmon.
I don't know if worrying directly leads to being depressed, but it clearly can, since all sins eventually lead to extreme sadness. Worrying is when you don't trust God and then start being afraid of bad things happening to you.
About worrying Jesus said: "don't worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? ho of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? So do not worry, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?' For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." - Matthew 6:25-34
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