Ever Feel Suicidal?
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Oh my Sweet Pea calm down. I understand but what don't kill you only makes you stronger. Your child needs you. I want to encourage you right now. Life is hard and even harder with Bush in office. I love you even though I don't know you. Keep ur head up Boo!
Hope for the future and surprises every day kept me going when I was down. You need to take risks and put yourself out there
And whats killing yourself going to do? Do you achieve leaving your son without a dad is that it?
What stopped me was to think about the hurt that I would put my loved ones through. I have had people in my life that have killed them selves, always with a gun. To me, suicide is an extremely selfish act. You have people that love and care about you. The devastation that you will leave these people with, the way you will scar them for the rest of their lives because you did this is monumental. Seek help, talk to somebody who will listen and knows what kind of help they can get you. Suicide is never an answer.
Yes 3 times in fact in one year and each time I admitted myself to the hospital for my own sake. I suggest if things are going downhill for you and you truly feel suicidal then go the ER or call a crisis line immediately.
Oh yes, I think most people have had those thoughts. Just remember that things will get better. Think about the things that you love to do and then see what jobs are out there correspond with your loves. For example, if you like riding motorcycles look for the bike shops around and inquire about a job. If you like golf, go to a pro shop and inquire about a job with them. Try and look at each individual issue you have in your life, and work on them individually. It's my opinion that you can't fix everything all at once. Once you've accomplished one thing enjoy that for a bit (like finding a new job) and then after that tackle the next one. You'll see, it won't seem so overwhelming like it does now. I wish you the best in all that you do.
What is your relationship w/ God like? If you feel like God hates you and has dealt you a crappy life, your wrong. You have just had a super rough life. You have probably prayed and think He isn't listening. But he is. Try to just become closer w/ him. I started to read the bible everyday and even though somethings are still the same I have begun to feel better about my life adn my self. Don't go suicidal because then your son would really be w/out you and trust me, you love your son you wouldn't want him to go through the pain. You have know Idea how hard it is to live on while someone you know has gone suicidal. It hurts worst than someone just dying. You may even want to go to a therapist. They can help too. Just remember. You are never alone. And there is always someone who looks up to you and loves you.
I hang with my cousin in-law and my husband. They make me feel better.
Personally, no, but that doesn't mean there haven't been times when i've thought my whole world was about to crash down around me. I think its about realizing the importance of not taking life for granted. For instance, yes, you've had a rough go at it these last 2 years, but that doesn't mean the next 2 will be just as crappy...and believe me, you are from rock bottom. Take it one day at a time, set goals for yourself, have fun with your kid, get another job if you have to, and enjoy your life.
Yes I do feel suicidal sometimes, and have come close to doing it... What keeps me from from going over the edge is the thought that Im not going to let people and bad happenenings ruin my life. I think of how selfish it would be because of all the pain i would cause those who love me. I also think of the people I have yet to meet who could turn my life around. Whenever you feel this way call someone, and talk to them. Anyone a friend, relative... This is what I do (im 15 years old btw) good luck, and remember theres more to life than what it is now... <3
that would be a yes. I have also known 2 people that have committed suicide. The after effects are not worth it. It may seem as though, nothing will ever get better but that simply cannot be true. I personally lost about 4 members of my family within a 5 month period, one of which was my mother and I thought that my life might as well be over because it is so unfair. Luckily, I have had the support of the rest of my family and they have helped me see that life is better than death. No one can tell you how to feel, and I certainly can't say that you have to believe me but if you truly feel like there is no other way, please talk to someone. If you are afraid of being judged by your friends or family, talk to a counselor or call a hotline(1-800-273-talk). These people are here to help you! Good luck and don't give up. I apologize that this answer is this long.
Often asked this question myself , in this very site, but for a different reason in my life but always came across one strong line that attracted to live is- Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem...so it has to be ur decision. I pray for u.
This may sound overly simplistic but it worked for me: Consider all of the problems you have, and determine if suicide is an effective solution for them.
I hated everything about my life once - family that didn't appreciate all I did, no friends, horrible place to live, etc. Literally reason it out - would suicide solve these problems? For instance, will your son be better off without a dad at all, thinking he died depressed and unhappy? Or would be be better off with a dad who's living in a different apartment, having some troubles but still trying to make his life better?
Then think about the underlying problem - what was it I really wanted - money? A better place to live? Internal happiness? A feeling of personal accomplishment? For me, and this sounds really stupid but it's true - it was revenge. My "support structure" was full of negative people, always thinking I couldn't do well, and I even believed it too, which was why I was in that spot to begin with. I figured success was the best revenge, and I knew if I tried I could prove them all wrong. Thus, I reasoned suicide out as an illogical option, and set about changing things.
Life is never easy - nothing worthwhile is - but set a goal for yourself and keep it always in mind; focus and determination do eventually pay off. It may take a while, but don't let the problems overwhelm you.
Good luck! =)
No ... but i dnt treat my body so well =)
It's always darkest befor the dawn!! My grandma told me that and it's true!! I had the same dark feelings you are having after my son died, but killing yourself is NOT the answer. your life will get better,mine did♥♥
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