Anti social freak.?
Question:
I'm a freak.
I'm ugly.
I want to change...help me..?
I use to be all peppy and confident..and then idk..things just totally changed.
I want to be happy again..
help.
Answers:
Antisocial freak? thats my name
anyways dont worry \; i have been that all my life, i now i cant change it cuz thats the way i am bnut im actually getting used to it
BUT
if u where like that b4 maybe ull change again :) maybe its just an angst or something
if it doesnt change there will always be people who like you, just do your best, the people who still stay with u even if u rly are an antisocial freak are your real friends
the people that hate cuz of this are noobs
dont worry :D!
This section of YouQA.com saddens me...
I mean, I by no means have a perfect live. In fact, the way I live is pretty messed up.
But from one messed up person to the next, I don't really have much to say that can help. Getting out of that rut that you've put yourself so deep into is gonna be hell climbing out of.
I wish you good luck and if you need to chat, I am definitely here, all day everyday!
Wow, you sound just like me. I have been like this for years. I think i might be depressed, idk. If you find out how to fix whatever is wrong with us let me know!
You might try some therapy. It might also help if you took a break from the computer for a while and tried going out with friends or making some new ones if need be.
if you want to be social, you're not antisocial by choice.. you're just having trouble being social for whatever reason.
I am fairly antisocial and the company of others is very tiring for me. I need time alone to reset.
I don't think you're antisocial from your post. To be honest, you sound like you're afraid to be social because you're afraid people will judge you. But you want their company and acceptance which makes me think you're very social but you're not able to show it right now. You need to find out why IMHO. When you find out why, you can start to figure out how to fix it.
can you find out why you feel this way? What makes you think you're ugly? (Everyone thinks they're ugly so you're not alone) I think you're far less ugly than you think...
You're not a freak. This is pretty normal :) But you should try to talk to someone, ok? Talk about all this with anyone you trust and if you don't trust anyone right now, write it down in a journal and read it over and think about what you've written after you've had some distance from it. YOu need to get all this out and get past it. Because if you become a victim of yourself, life starts to suck pretty fast.
You need to change the way you view yourself and your world.
Try getting up early and going for a brisk walk. Exercise.
Maybe get in touch with someone you miss or lost touch with.
Try eating healthier, make sure you eat in AM at noon.
Are your moods fueled by marijuana or cocaine because
even if you were to say to me it only happens once in a while
these substances will only make matters worse.
What used to make you happy that you no longer have?
Can you get that back? Do you want that back?
Can you do better?
Can you start each day different and try new things?
Are you working? If not, hit the pavement TOMORROW.
The only way things get better is if you make them.
Are you feeling healthy or are you tired and run down?
You could be truly depressed and need to see a doctor.
If I knew more I could be more specific and helpful
I've been where you are - 8 yrs ago & I'm not there anymore
I am living proof that there is light at the end of the tunnel.
Do not give up. Life is good.
For me, being antisocial is all about fear.
I was raised to believe that no one would ever like me or love me. In my mind, this means that when people get close to me, they will find out that I'm some hideous, unlovable monster.
So, of course, this means that I avoid social situations whenever possible. And when it's not possible, I'm usually extremely uncomfortable and self-conscious.
Turning to God has helped me. I know that I am totally known, totally accepted, and totally loved.
A class at my church helped me to understand exactly why I experience social anxiety. This has helped me to understand my paranoia. This helps me to overcome my irrational thoughts ("nobody wants to be around me") with rational thinking ("I don't have to feel rejected if I'm excluded from an activity. I am not a bad, unlovable person.").
Also, religion teaches that helping others is the best way to get close to them. And putting others first is the best way to get the focus off of me and my self-consciousness. The Bible is full of advice on how to be a people person.
Hi,
I would first suggest that you get a new therapist. That is appaling that she fell asleep! Time to get rid of her.
You want to change from being anti social, that is good. However, what you wrote about yourself was really not very nice. Maybe there are self esteem issues going on for you, and that is why you do not want to be social. Maybe someone hurt you, and said bad things to you, made you feel bad about yourself, and now it has sunk in and you are hurt emotionally.
Somehow, there has to be some ways for you to build up your self confidence and start to feel better about you. Focus on some things that your naturally good at and keep doing it.
i am sure you have talents in certain areas , that will help you feel better. you can also help others and give your time to people less fortunante then yourself. Maybe volenteer in a hospital? daycare center, or if you like pets an animal shelter.
Best wishes.
you a great person. i will help you feel better and help you see that. contact me dogmicjoe@yahoo.com. i was like you but nowq i feel so great!!. hang on. try walking and try meditation. holisticonline.com helps ppl to feel good. try that site
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