i am with someone and our sex life stinks because of his weight what should i do any suggestions?

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Tell your mate how you feel. The most important means to a good relationship is effective communication. Tell him that you love him and you are seriously concerned with his weight problem. Also tell him the same thing you are telling us about you sex life. The problem we seem to have in our society today is that instead of going directly to the source with our problems, we turn to everyone else. Talk to your mate and I am sure together you guys can work it out. I will be praying for you. This is the Caveman signing out and laying down his club. Peace and God bless.

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Sex is a potent weapon! Use it to get him to lose some weight!

Dump the slob. You can't expect him to get any better.

tell him your vagina is a turkey sandwich and he'll eat it right up

Well....you have to make a decision based on your priorities. Sorry not to have a better response for you.

find someone smaller

have him lose weight or move on , if you are not happy

Don't worry about it, Ur relationship shouldn't be all about sex.

Put his a** on a diet.

pay for lypo

if u aint commin then u should be commin 2 me.

you should care about that sex is good but not the mos important

try different techniques.some sexual positions might be more effective than others.dont dump him because of sexual issues.if he treats u good it shouldn't matter

put the love life on hold for a bit. Motivate him. "let's go to the store and get ice cream" sounds completely wrong right? Remember we are just motivatin not actually working out on this one. Replace the things he eats with lower fat items. if it's pizza he wants. make him a peta pizza with everything he likes -Sausage? *turkey. Pepperoni *turkey all low fat once you get that all going,get a scale. Daily weigh in's are the key. sex life will come into play naturally.

Maybe there is another reason your sex life stinks. My husband is 6', 270lbs and our sex life is unbelievable! Granted, he would have more energy if he was skinny, but I am more than satified. Weight may be causing your man to be more tired, lazy, or have no self confidence. Or maybe you are turned off by his weight and you dont enjoy sex because of it. Look past the surface for the real reasons.

listen. honestly if your sex life is the entire relationship you should find another person. your not supposed to be with a person for sex. sex is just... benefits...and a child making technique. if the sex stinks because hes overweight it shouldnt be such a big thing.but if its that much to you have a talk with him and tell him what u think in a sensitive way. but frankly its shallow that you'r complaining that the sex stinks if your with him be with him. (PS. sex is one of the best ways to excercise... if you get my drift)

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