I'm a straight guy working in a country (Saudi Arabia) in a contractual basis.?

Question:

We're staying in a Camp where we cannot see girls 24/7. Majority of us has a contract of 2 years. This country has so many restrictions. We are all males in our Camp, and we are 2 in one room. I witnessed several times of my roommate having masturbation in my presence. Several times also he invited to do it together, told just for fun, but I refused. I'm not comfortable. Is it normal to masturbate together or have some sex together? Is there any tendency to have sex with him where we cannot have the chance to have sex with girls because it's very difficult because of some restrictions. Please comment on this.

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it's call situation homosexuality. Like prison inmates where there are limited outlet for sex with the opposite sex, many engage in sex with each other out of necessity and survival. If u are not comfortable and able to refrain from participating, that's just fine. For others they need to release themselves to keep thier sanity. Once you are out of that situation you will be back to normal. It does not turn you into a gay person. Similarly many teenagers experiment with each other before moving on to the opposite sex.

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Wow, I would love to live in Saudi Arabia.

Do what u feel , no probel when u masturbate before some one Hell, go for it. As long as he isn't joking. lol, in which case just tell him you were joking. I am sure you two could keep it secret, right? Unless you were caught, then you're screwed. In every possible way.

It doesn't make you gay, if that's what you're thinking. Do what's comfortable for you. Back in the day, ship's fleets had 'cabin boys'. The boys were young, and feminine looking in a way; the sailors would often have sex with them. Men in prison often have sex with other males, because of the unavailability of females and the natural sex drive.

You need to keep your head together on this situation because you'll only be there two years and you won't enjoy looking back on a time when you did something you'll regret for the rest of your life. Right now a good thing to do would be to put in as much time as you can reading the Bible or other similar materials.

I think you should do it ,who cares if it means your gay do it and enjoy it while you can .it can be very good actually ,is he cute!!
if yes then do it if no then don`t .
good luck str8 guy.

It's understandable to ask if it's "normal" but it's useless. What constitutes "normal" varies widely from person to person. On one hand you are curious about sharing what could be a satisfying and pleasurable experience with your roommate. On the other, you are afraid of stepping beyond the confines of religious and cultural mandates and maybe a little worried about negative repercussions should the word get out. You need to gauge your own comfort level. Forget the terms "straight" and "gay" - there are MANY "straight" men who explore their sexuality with other men, whether due to the lack of female partners or simply because they choose to experience both sides. The fact that you are contemplating this carefully and asking for opinions says that you want to make an informed decision. Know that you are doing so, and be at peace with whatever you do. Try it! I know I jerked off with other guys while I was in high school.

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