I can't get it up if I don't have long foreplay?

Question: I get pretty nervous sometimes when I'm doing it and it takes me a long and slow of foreplay before I can get aroused. Sometimes girls ask me to get it up fast, because they want to get started. I tried to relax but it just makes me even more nervous. What can I improve here?

Answers:
i have one great tip to tell you....my bf had a same problem and he wasn't aslo able to relax and the way he overcome it was more concentrating on me and my body then on himself and it worked :) maybe you should try it too! Good luck!

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maby just quit thinking about it so much nad just have a good time and before you know it (it may be working agin).

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