i am 17 1/2 i was raped at 8 - 16 1/2 am i going to be gay or am i going to repeat on other boys?
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Rape is a crime of violence and is about control - don't confuse this with sex. Most of the men who rape boys identify as straight - many are married with children of their own.
No, a sexual assault will not change your orientation. If you were already gay, you'll stay gay; and if you were already straight, you'll stay straight.
There is evidence that children who are repeatedly abused grow up to become offenders themselves - you should receive counseling about your own situation to ensure that doesn't happen to you.
Sorry to hear that you were victimized in this way.
I am really sorry man.
What some other bastard did to you does not change who you are. It is your choice alone whether you will be straight or not and if you will do the same to other boys.
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