Anyone have experience with Viagra, or any of the other "male performance enhancers"? What do you think?
Question:
I'm 43 and finally got married for the first time almost a year ago.
For my entire life leading up to getting married, I feared that when I actually did get married I would find it boring, and of course it is.
There's a lot more to the picture, but for the purposes of this question, I'm wondering if anyone has any input for me regarding Viagra and/or Cialis, Levitra, etc...
Thanks.
Answers:
Well your best resource is going to be your doctor.
Basically for a man of your age, it pretty much guarantees an erection, and it will be harder and you'll seem somewhat bigger than you are otherwise.
You need to check with the doc, because it can impact your blood pressure and a stuffy nose is a pretty common side effect.
I think you just figured out why most people don't want to wait until marriage for sex. Sex is just too important for a good marriage to not be mutually compatible.
What you should probably do is seek out a therapist. There are many ways the two of you can make it fun, rewarding and interesting. You may have to work past some hangups (no this doesn't mean doing anything you are uncomfortable with, but rather any "dirty" concerns that can keep a woman from relaxing and getting into it).
She also has to know her body, because she needs to be able to share with you what she needs to be satisfied. Some women are not comfortable with this.
Lastly there's a lot you can do. Stop focusing on the goal. Experiment with touch, both non-sexual and sexual. Pay close attention to her reaction. What makes her relax, what makes her tense, what accelerates her breathing and heart rate, etc. When you learn to read her signals, you'll be able to play her body like a musical instrument.
If you gain that mastery, you'll probably both really love your sex life.
Drugs won't get you there or curb the boredom.
viagra is great, but remember its a temporary fix, one thing about any of these drugs, it causes your heart to speed up, if you were to experience chest pain, make sure you tell them, because nitro pills will work against you.
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