I'm a friendly guy who likes to make friends.?

Question:

Most guys who want me to be their friend, I found out that they are gays. Their physical appearance is far from being gays. I have known many guys that at first few days, they are very nice. But as we get to know each other, I found out later that what they are looking for is not true frienship, but rather, sex. I refused what they are asking. It's not my type. Now, I have already a phobia to meet new guy friends. I'm just an ordinary guy, simple, silent-type guy. I'm just wondering with myself why I'm attractive with gays. Any comment.

Answers:
It's a premonition... hehehe lol :p

Just joking men... Perhaps it must be with the looks... or you must be too kind that they are thinking you are one of the shy types that they can victimize.

Just try to stay friendly...nothing is wrong with that... the more you become afraid of it the more you will become homophobic... and some friends that I know says that homosexuality starts with being homophobic... that's what they say...

My advise... stay friendly...that will be your asset just let them know and be open to your limitations...as long as you and your friends know the limit and stay firm on it...there's nothing to be afraid... also be careful... know persons whom you befriend...listen to your instincts...time will reveal the quality of people that surrounds you...but as long as you know yourself... and that you are doing no wrong and harm to others...you are a fine creation the we will treasure....

By the way if they fade away after your refusal... it just means that they are not authentic or genuine friends... making friends doesnt mean asking for something in return... it should always be a legitimate and unselfish act... we make friends not to ask for something but giving freely what we can offer without any strings attached... hope you got my point...that is how i see friendship... dont worry there is a lot there who is most worthy of your friendship...

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Other Answers:
Well here is my suggestion stay FRIENDLY!

look my name is elie i agree with and you. you know why ?because gay people dont care about friendship they just want to have sex so im not gay if you want to be friend with me so these are my mails
forides_elie@hotmail.com
elie_rouvas@yahoo.com

believe in yourself. stay friendly. you will have a lot of true friends.

no i dun agree that gay just all abt sex. i have a gay friend, 1 bi girl and 1 bi male friend. i'm a open minded person and they trust me to confide such issue to me. we r just like any other close friends that hang out etc. no sex involve. to why ur attractive to gay? ur looks? haha.. i duno u well so cant say much. but if u wana b friend, can always drop me a mail. cheers

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