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i play on a boys soccer team because according to my teammates i play like a boy. well anyway every year the younger teams and older teams mix up teams and scrimmage for fun .my friend who is a goalie ended up on the other team. the game went on and i got to kick a penalty shot . well it went right through the goalie(my friends) hands and drilled him in the nuts (i was not aiming there) he was down for like 5 min and the whole time i was apologizing and saying it was an accident and i didn't mean it.he got up and gave me a dirty look and after the game he yelled at me for "putting him through so much pain and i never should've kicked that hard". well he got me mad so i told him he could've just caught it but then i felt bad cuz i know it hurts and i apologized yet again well he stalked off and hasn't talked to me in days. I think he is being unreasonable and don't know how to reconcile with him.. how about some input on the situation? plz

Answers:
you damaged his ego and his manhood so just give him some time to realize being mad at you is stupid .. at least you were nice enough to apologize and why wasn't he wearing a cup?

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Please stop asking this stupid freakin question... no one gives a crap.

it's not your fault. he probably felt embarrased. if he still doesnt talk to you, then forget about him

I think he's bein totally unreasonable. It was an accident. If he's going to be like that, I would say that he's not a friend you need to keep.

Having played sports all my life, it is only common sense to wear a cup supporter to protect the little guys from such an accident. It was this guy's fault for being a jerk. You apologized once and that is more than enough. Forget it, next time he should be more careful.

Doesn't your coach make all the boys wear protective cups? He should! You could reason that your friend is being unreasonable. However, the pain is excruciating and humiliating to be done by a girl. So we not only have hurt to deal with, we also have a little bit of a male ego problem to deal with and believe me the male ego is a fragile and delicate thing. I would back off. You have expressed your apologies and your regrets. In a few days when you can catch your friend in a private moment. You should say something like " I hope your okay. You know you are to good a friend and I would never have put you through that pain on purpose. I hope our friendship can continue. Then let him make the next move. Good luck with your soccer and keep it up.

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