I have a masturbating question.?

Question:

ok, im 16, and ive had this friend that ive known since like 5th grade, and me and him have masturbated since we were in like 8th grade. we've talked about it for years, but about a week ago, we actually masturbated in front of each other and compared penis sizes and talked about it in person instead of like on aim or something.i thought it was pretty fun, and i want to do it again, although maybe next time i want to like jack him off and have him jack me off, and then do it again later and do other things like bjs or anal, just to experiment..we are both very attracted to women, so we arent gay, but i want to kno if its still gay to want this, and how i can get him to have me jack him off and have him jack me off

Answers:
I don't think it's gay because I don't think you are interested in him as a guy; you are interested only in experimenting with sex.

You can sort of feel him out to see if he would be receptive to the idea. If you sense that he is, go ahead and ask. Otherwise, use your judgement.

EDIT: The guy above me. Wow.

dude you are just plain ******* gay accept it and leave the women for men lime me who will get her to jack me off and suck my schlong

It's part of the experience of life ! Don't worry too much about cause most of us adults have had experiences like yours when we were your age. Some adults are more open about it than others ! One piece of advice, try sticking to your own age group and don't get hooked up with any adults !

I think this is a decision you will have to come to terms with yourself- but man the guy above certainl does provide a lot of info!

you sound pretty normal in wanting to experiment, jerking each other off is okay but not sure that anal or oral sex is a good idea at the moment as you could get infected.

jerk each other off and then see if you prefer a girl to do it

Ok. I can't believe I'm answering this question. but here goes. If he wanted to do this with you in the first place then he's obviously interested in you also. If you're wanting to do this with each other, and it sounds as if you're definitely into it, yet you still like women then you are probably bi. A guy who is completely straight would never want to give another guy a bj. What you've described wanting to do is definitely not straight. There's nothing wrong with being gay or bi, it's just a part of who you are. In time you'll learn to deal with it. As for how you can get him to do this. just ask. The worst he can say is no. Maybe ease into it first by just talking about what happened and see how he feels about it. You'll be able to tell if it was a one time thing or if he wants to take it to the next level.

your a teenager. Your going to get horny...honestly I think its sick your doing it with your friend there.Not gay, just sick.
Are you gay.No. Is it gay to want that.Like I said above.its just sick. If your going to sin by masturbating, then do it on your own time and by yourself with only you and God as witnesses. But its not right to desire stuff like that. Its all in your maturity level, your a teenager, so what, Im only 20 and 4 days old and Ive not done any junk like that. Difrient people think difriently. True. But you can stop thoughts and change them. Its all in disipline.
So you have 2 choices, Grow up and fight the dragon tell your maried beacuse thats the RIGHT thing to do.
Or screw up your life in ways you dont even know by living for the moment and being a little boy.

oh yeah, that first guy who awnserd..lamo you need to wake up and grow up and read what I wrote that guy.

Masturbation is a sin. dont like it. TOUGH. its truth and now you will be held acountable to that truth when you stand before God.

You're just curious. That doesn't make you gay and stuff. If you ask him, you may jerk him and blow him, but ask him first. That way, he can feel comfortable.

At 16 you are full of curiosity and want to experience things and sex is just like everything else. If you and your friend agree then it is worth experimenting, otherewise how do you know if you like it or not?
As for blowjobs or anal that is up to the two of you but as a thinking human being don't discount anything until you have tried it. Remember about safe sex too my firend, even if you know your friend. Good luck

Don't worry, you are not gay, it is normal for growing boys and girls thinking of fantasy even in the same gender. But you must know the limit and have it safe and protected.

your gay

that's not normal.
get a girlfriend. quick!

It is normal at your age to experiment with sex. As long as you are both comfortable with each other, I can't see a problem. It doesn't mean you are gay ,just curious.

Guys are curious about themselves & other guys, & do wonder about these things. The most straight guys may do is jerk off together.

is normal to masturbate with friends and stuff, like comparing penises.. but bj's? and anal thats gay!sorry but think about this, 20 years from now u may feel badly if u are still straight but if u are going to be gay , then go ahead have intercouse with ur friend. haha gay gay!

your only Young hunny I'm 18 n i did stuff like that at your age and i should have waited ya still Young Hun n no ya not gay ya just wanting to experiment. i read some where all people are attracted to some one of the same sex at some time in there life. good luck

To have such thoughts and passing ideas, or to be aroused by them isn't gay. To act upon them is. Please do not continue this practice

you may be curious or bi or gay.
If your friend say's no then don't.Don't force him and he shouldn't either.
Stay away from the anal thing,you can do some damage to the insides !

I wouldn't do this.
Number 1: Anal sex can damage the body, even when a man penetrates a woman. It was designed to send things out, not take them in.
Nember 2: A bl##jo#? Why in the world would you do that? That's not right dude.

Tell him that you don't want to, unless you do. Then this entire sphiel was worthless.

sorry but you are definatly gay

take a hint from one who has been there, relax and let nature take it's course. Whether you are gay or straight is immaterial; and until you are well established into adulthood, you are free to play around with whichever gender you choose as long as you don't date more than one person at a time lest they find out and get jealous.

As for masturbating with your friend, go for it as often as you both feel good doing it. But don't push it, just let it happen and enjoy it. And if the conversation happens toward mutual masturbation or experimenting with other activities, be honest about wanting to try them with your friend but don;t try to coerce or rush into anything.

After all it's better to have one good friend with whom you are free to masturbate rather than losing him and being a solo act again. But who knows, maybe he too is curious about a few of the same things and the two of you might do some mutual exploring.

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