my life is over ive lost everyone and now i want to die.....?
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oh Hun something must of happened for you too get so upset see Dr i am sure they can help did you give the counsellor a chance it can take few months for that to work you need to tell them whats bothering you for him or she to help
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no u don u lying bastarrdd
Keep that positivity going...
Get off your butt and go running....
Try doing nice things for people. Might as well make other people feel good even if you can't. It might end up helping you, too.
you need help, the samaritns are very good, i know how you feel mate, but your here asking for help, thats a positive.
Why Do Teens Try to Kill Themselves?
Most teens interviewed after making a suicide attempt say that they did it because they were trying to escape from a situation that seemed impossible to deal with or to get relief from really bad thoughts or feelings. Like Ethan, they didn’t want to die as much as they wanted to escape from what was going on. And at that particular moment dying seemed like the only way out.
dont say that - if you still have your daughter then you havent lost everyone - she is there for you i'm sure. Please think about it, how would she feel if you weren't around anymore? she may feel the same way as you do now.
please talk to someone about your problems - if not a counciller - someone else - me if you wish!! but please, no matter how bad it all gets, dont end it all.
What on earth has happened to make you feel this way? Have you no friends or family you can talk things through with? Just think about your daughter - what's going to happen to her if you do something stupid? She'll need you as she gets older.
Perhaps a counselor is not what you need. Try talking to your family about your feelings and try to get some help from an MD. You may have clinical depression caused by an imbalance of hormones. Only a doctor can tell you if that is the case. Medications and therapy may be able to help you, and there are free services if you need them. Don't just give up, you have a daughter. At least for her sake you have to go out and try to get help. Things will get better, and some would say that you have to hit bottom before you can pick yourself up. I would seriously suggest talking to someone before you take any drastic measures. Good luck and blessed be. V-
You're 18, you've got a long life ahead of you... this is just a blip and you should try to avoid suicidal thoughts... The best quote I've heard is that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. In other words, things can get better, but if you die they don't have chance to get better, ever.
You have a daughter who loves you and that in itself is worth giving your all for.
You say you've tried everything, alcohol and drugs but you're trying the wrong things. Try getting a job and making something of yourself to make you and your daughter proud.
Good luck! xxxxxxx
go get on an anti depressant, you will get better so keep your head up! i lost my family to and i am 32 years old having to start over, so if i can do it you can too
I used to feel like you. I would strongly suggest getting off of the drugs and alcohol. Then I feel that it would be beneficial for you to find the source of your unhappiness. This requires that you are totally honest with yourself. It is also possible that you may need medication, but try leaving the drugs and alcohol alone first.
Hey there! r u serious. u donno what is in store after leaving here if u kick off now. so better postpone the d-day and enjoy your life. I was one like u once and I am here alive and kicking and telling u this. So see u next year this day. Till then bye.
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I do understand ! And explaining it to people sometimes is useless, as what may be major to you, may mean nothing to others, like silly answers, such as, "Why dont you go running, or you need to get out, or , you should meet people. When we are in a deep depression, these things are ridiculous ! They simply have never experienced such deep levels of depression. For me the future was impossible, given the situation ... Time changed it through what now , I see, had to have been an act of God. What could have never happened for me (Or I thought), actually did happen. I guess a miracle. It took 3yrs. though. So wait, and hope, and pray... In the meantime, anti-depressants can help....
It's possible that the councellor assigned to your case didn't meet your needs, therefor get a second or third opinion, ask for a different councellor. Make an appointment with your family doctor and explain your anxieties, and or any emergency department they will help you in your circumstance/s. Your daughter needs you, and you have the ability to turn things around for the both of you. There is a lot of help out there for you both, with just the effort you put in will open many doors of opportunity but you must take care of your anxieties and work through them to accomplish that. You are very young to have the responsibility of raising a child and that can be a bit scarry, sometimes, but you can do it. You just have to beleive in your parenting and having supportive people around you will make a big difference too. Don't hesitate to ask for help, it doesn't make you any less of a person, it makes you a wise one. Therefore take small steps towards recovery, give yourself time to heal. You will find sometimes it seems overwhelming and can do steps that are only minutes at a time, but that's okay, they are still steps ahead. In time you will get stronger, and your steps will be bigger and faster towards those open doors of opportunity. Now the decisions are yours and they are all doable, will you hinder your daughters chance at having a beautiful and nurturing future because of selfishness, or will you be a mature young man and be a proud father to someday walk your daughter down the isle of matrimony, and/or the isle of graduation at her success in college. Pride for such events no one can take from the both of you doing it together and having succeeded such goals. I hope I have helped a bit, and have given you a few things to think about. In the meanwhile, be good to yourselves, take care, and wishing you strength and courage!
You said you've tried everything--but have you tried Jesus? I'm not talking religion--I'm talking relationship. When I was 26 (going through a divorce, depressed, and caring for an infant son) I gave my life back to Him, and He has stuck right with me through the good, the bad, and the ugly. All you have to do is ask Him. He's real. He's there. He's just waiting for you to ask Him to come into your life. Tell Him exactly how you're feeling--what makes you mad, sad, angry, depressed. Tell Him everything. He loves you right where you're at, and I promise He will bring you a peace like you've never known. Go ahead and try it. What have you got to lose?
life can be a ***** but given time it does heal if you died where would that leave your daughter she is going to needyou more then ever.try living for her and it will help you get over the next few months you have to much to lose if you carrying on thinking like this.time is a healer and you are at the age you can come back time is a healer.wish you good luck in the months ahead
i have my own person help hotline. email me for my number
well talk it over.
Even if u dont give a **** about yourself, think of your daughter, imagine how she would feel if you did something stupid! People are always there to listen, EVEN STRANGERS !! Dont do anyhthing daft PLEASE??
hey, i think you just need time. or maybe u just need to try and forget your problems. dont worry 2 much abotu anything, talk to someone...
You have a little girl to care for and if you can't do it then you MUST find someone /some agency who can. Anything that happens to her is your fault. How can you be so selfish when there is a helpless little girl who needs you? Suck it up and act like a man!
Right now you are tired from looking after a crying baby.
I have five children and lack of sleep can do a lot of damage to a spirit even if you start out strong to begin with.
Add other things and it's a formula for a total melt down.
Go get help.Now.
I left you a post on your first question - here it is again - don't take the time to read it if you already have. Just- go- do- now,
since I don't know where you are
this is a start,
look up crisis helplines for your state on line
I was just on one online in PA that offered daycare help. So there is help. You just have to go for it.
yuo can do it in the phone book, but it'll be a ***** for sure trying to find the number.
Health and Human Services
Social Services
in the Government pages
Keep trying the government numbers till you find the one you need
If you really feel desperate like it becomes life threatening for either of you - call 911 or take yourself and the baby to the emergency room -before something hhappens
Here's my last post-
donworybhapy
23 minutes ago
I can't guarantee what social services will do for you cause I don't know your circumstances.
They helped me a lot though when my third child was born and they did not take any of my children.
My husband fell on the stairs while holding our son, broke babies leg. Investigation, doctors said that's the way it happened, no abuse. Of course we knew that.
Because both the babies legs were in a cast (they do that to stabilize the broken one)
we were considered at risk. Because he required extra care.
They got me a babysitter for my other two children. Bless them they do not know how this helped.
Normally I do not have a good opinion of social services, but they really helped.
Call them, tell them you are alone, you need help, you haven't slept, they should help. I would think you are considered at risk.
They can get you formula and clothing. They should get you someone to watch the baby at least while your in school and working. Some of that is income based but don't worry about that now. Just go, call, get help.
I don't think they would take her away from you unless there was something terribly wrong.
And if you get help now, your less likely to loose her.Or worse.
And bless you, don't worry about spelling, just do what you have to to take care of your baby.
only losers give up
pull yourself together
go to rehab think of your doughter
The one golden and positive thing you said was that you have a daughter. And although I dont know you, reading between a few lines, you love her. And I know that you only have to look into her eyes to know that you want to see her grown up and happy.
She needs you to be there for her. So come on, the fact you have typed this question tells me that you need help, its to biger job to do this via Q & A, Please seek help, you may well have hit some walls, but trust me it will be worth it. xxx
You need to turn to the Lord...with God, all things are possible..you need to fill the void in your life into a healthy life, serving God and Jesus, and for that little darling daughter of yours, which should really be giving you something to live for, ....I decided to live for God and Jesus a long time ago..and to be a soldier for Them..and my life is so happy, If i was homeless, I always know that I have God and Jesus, and there is hope and eternal life waiting for me...God will give you the strength, all you have to do is ask Him to lead you out of this hell you are in..God bless, Pray on it, and He will be there for you.. Give it to Jesus and he will handle it
JUST THINK CLEAN YOUR SELF UP YOUR BEAUTIFUL LITTLE GIRL WILL WANT HER DADDY NOT SOMEONE ON DRUGS think of her in whatever you do
Do you believe in God? This is the only thing you have not turned to try it. Some one or something has been keeping you around and there is someone you still care about or you would not still be here. Look into your daughter eyes and see her further you can really ruin her life being the way you are. I love you and God loves you too. Nothing or anyone else can change us if we don't want to be changed. You have to be willing to change and want to change before anyone can help. It takes a shorter time to get to the point you are at now. It will take slower paste and longer time to get back. One step at a time even if one step is a month. You will eventually get there. I will be praying for you.
you've tried the wrong things sweetie he's name isGod and he will help you just askhim into your heart he will help you and your little girl I will be praying for you
no u don't. it will get better. hang in there 4 your girl. i have 3
You have a daughter and she needs her mother . that is first. you need some serious counseling and you need to wake up and take responsibility and quit being a loser..you will lose your daughter . d*** straight you will . do it for her and your self.
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