Is it safe to be friend of a gay?
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Yes, if any of my friends told me they were gay I would laugh and call them names for a short while but I would always be their friend and help them to deal with anything.
i am a male and i am also gay
i conssider that is safe to be the friend of a gay because i could never hit on my best friend. do u know why? because tomorow i couldn't look him in the eyes.
i'm not sure what you mean by safe? Why wouldn't it be safe? Do you mean because he is gay and you're a man and maybe he'd hit on you? Do you hit on every woman you see? Maybe he won't think you're attractive. Gay men are not attracted to every man, just like straight men are not attracted to every woman.
I guess i need clarification on what you mean by safe and why.
Why would it not be? No one is going to bite you. Gays are no different than anyone else. Some are great friends, some are not.just like the rest of the crowd. Good luck
ya i work with some, im still strait
Yeah it's safe, I mean I have gay friends, and straight friends, but even though I think my straight friends are hot I still respect them and wouldn't do anything to break a friendship up. so yeah it's safe. Gays have a lot of respect for people and who they are. I highly doubt that a gay friend of yours would hit on you, even if they thought you were hot.
Buy something to cover your butt.
good lucks
being gay is a choice of life style.Why wouldn't it be safe ?
Unless he/she wants to take it to the next level and it's not your cup of tea.
A gay what?Well,at least you know what sex you are,what sex is your prospective friend?I heard they secrete poison from their skin,are highly radioactive and if you wave a red cloth in front of them,they charge.What gives you such an ego as to think a gay person would even think about having you as a friend,you obviously feel uncomfortable about it otherwise you wouldn't be on here exposing to the world your insecurities about your own sexuality.
yes as long as he wouldn't hit on you or have crush on you . it wouldn't be safe if you hiding in a closet. he has a dick and a body just like you .
Probably safer than being the friend of a straight guy--he is less agressive, for one thing. How do you know if he is really gay--unless he proclaims he is, or you see him with another guy, he may just be a really sensitive guy.
Even if your friend is gay, so what, why do you like him as a friend? Does the gay factor make any real difference in your friendship? Friendships are always more important than the off and on attractions between guys and girls or guys and guys.
yes, just make sure he knows your orientation
The one thing I noticed in all the answers is no one thought of mentioning HIV/AIDS. Is this your fear of being around someone that is gay or being a friend of someone that is gay? It is safe to be friends with gay and straight people. Not all gay men or lesbian woman are out there being predetors looking for sex. We all mostly live the same kind of life anyone else does, we just live it with someone of the same sex. As for AIDS, it is also safe to be friends with someone who has AIDS or HIV. I don't think your going to sleep with them and also remember gay people are not the only ones whom have AIDS or HIV. There are many straight and bisexual people living with HIV or AIDS, for I am one of them and also an educator in the public sector on HIV and AIDS. So being a friend to someone with HIV or AIDS is safe and also being a friend with someone whom is gay is safe. Are you afraid other straight people will pick on you if your friends with someone who is gay or that they may think your gay and you don't want that??? These are all questions you should be asking yourself. For straight, bi or gay, we are all human beings before we are labels of sexuality preferances. So somewhere under your concious mind is another question about gay people, aids, how others will look at you or think of you and your worried about something much larger then being friends with someone whom is gay. So maybe what you should do is try to figure out just what your largest fear is about being a friend to someone whom is gay and then ask the bigger question to yourself of what is really beneath the being friends with gay people.
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