Do men go through lets say " change of life " or mid life crisis?

Question:

my boyfriend is 49 , i am 38 - he trys to have sex as often as possible to prove that he still has it , which he does . but its only been this way for the past 6 months , before this we had a normal sex life. he is very upset about turning 50 yrs old , with me being only 38 - he thinks that i wont want him he said,what age does it start for men and what is the symptom's or onset ? please help , sexed out = lol

Answers:
YES!
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Other Answers:
I don't know if its the same age for every man but I do know that most men do go through a mid-life crisis. A man gets to be a certain age(late40s,early 50s??) and he looks back on his life at all of his successes and failures. If he has had a lot of failures in his life he may become depressed or even angry. He may look around him and feel that his loved ones view him as a failure or view him as being old. Most men consider being old as not being as virile as they once were, virility being what we associate with manliness. This can make him feel like less than a man(not a very good feeling!!). If you truely love your boyfriend all you can do is reassure him,and let him know that he is as good in bed now as he ever was and that he has nothing to prove to you.Maybe this will cool him down a little!

Hi, I think you'll appreciate an answer from a man around your boyfriend's age. I'm 47 and single. For many guys, the thought of becoming an "old man" and losing their youth and possibly their virlity is too much for them to bear. They deny who they are and end up doing silly things, like buying convertible sports cars. Many men also date younger women in order to help them feel younger. Now, I'm not going to give you a "clinical" answer, I'll leave that for the doctors -- but I will give you an answer from experience, which I believe is worthy of consideration: a man's "menopause" is mostly psychological. In women, it's mostly physical. Speaking for myself, I may be 47 but I feel much younger and could care less how old the calendar says I am. It's just not something I'm all that focused on. Furthermore, the thought of turning "50" doesn't bother me in the slightest. There are a lot of advantages to being middle-aged, the most important being experienced in life. While it might be nice to be younger in many ways, there are times in my life I'd rather not repeat, and the ignorance of youth is right up there as somewhere I'd rather not go. You need to tell your boyfriend how much you appreciate the fact that he's older. I haven't dated lately, but if I did it would be comforting to hear that!

Hope this helps.

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