Why does masturbation sometimes feel better than sex?
Question:
My girlfriend's damn hot, so her being unattractive is not a possible reason.
I also remember that I used to be able to ejaculate on oral sex, but it doesn't happen anymore.
Btw, I'm a guy under 30, and I've always used a condom.
Can anyone provide an explaination?
Answers:
you are not abnormal. This is true for a lot of people. It is true that the brain is the biggest sex organ so a lot of it is mental. That is why pron speeds you along, also you may feel guilty with porn or even self pleasure so your brain speeds it along to get it over and done with. Condoms are a necessary evil they dull sensations and will slow you down but actually that is probably a blessing to your partner. Relax and enjoy! Your only problem is you ar human!
Other Answers:
sure
Sex is better Masturbation feels better than sex because you're doing it to yourself. Because you're experiencing all the sensations, and you are controlling all the action, you can give yourself what you're looking for. This is not uncommon, so don't worry. Most people enjoy sex for intimacy, because anybody can give themselves pleasure. It takes another person to make you feel 'special'.
First of all, what's the time issue? Are you in a race of some kind? Chances are your girlfriend appreciates the protracted activity, because it gives her an opportunity for more pleasure. It is possible--and I'm saying this to be truthful, not to be mean--that you are being a bit self-centered about sex. Try approaching sex with the only goal being to give your partner pleasure, and see how things go. A change in perspective can go a long way.
On the other side of the issue: yes, the situation is probably psychological in nature. If you "over-think" sex, it can be drained of pleasure pretty quickly. In a situation like yours, it is likely that you approach sex with some apprehension, and it is true that "the biggest sex organ is the one between your ears."
If you want quick release and you are having some conflicted emotions and thoughts during sex, masturbation can easily seem more pleasurable. When you masturbate, you don't have to think about the other person, your apprehensions, etc.
Geeeezz.
cause the women your with are lousy in bed.
Leave you thang along and get laid by someone else
sex is way better. there's nothing like a well-hung stud pounding my brains out then emptying his nut sack inside me. makes me dizzy. That's why you feel lot better masturbating than having sex is that because you're in full control of yourself and knows how to control the pressure you apply during masturbation and you know the most sensitive part of your dick. Condom can also decrease sensitivity. But if you partner knows how to do muscle control I'm sure you'll enjoy it. Otherwise just enjoy masturbating that safer too.
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