Bisexual guys - Do you think you will get married and have kids?

Question:

I may be bi, may be straight, idk.. I love looking at gus nude, and can get hard easily, and *** easily.. However I think girls are hot, and can do it to them too. My family would hate it if i was gay. i have always wanted kids, and a nice happy family. so bisexual guys, especially teens.. Do you expect to get married and have kids?

Answers:
I'm neither a guy nor bisexual, but since I answered some of your other questions and since there hasn't been a lot of activity on this one, I thought I'd write an answer to this one too. Hope you don't mind. :)

I know of more than one self-identified bisexual who has gotten married. Most have kids. Not all of them have had marriages that last, but at least one seems to have a very good marriage. For anonymity's sake, I'll call her "Joan".

Joan's husband knows Joan is bisexual and they have a fun time going out to "gentlemen's" clubs together, as well as doing many other things. They don't have kids, but I think that may be due to something medical. Not sure. I do know that they have been married for over 10 years and still seem very much in love. So, it is possible. As I said in another reply though, honesty is one of the most important parts of a good long term relationship.

Of the other bisexuals I know, one has been married more than once and has several kids, one married and got divorced and has one kid. Another is actually in a homosexual relationship and has a child with her female partner. What you will do, no one can say. Your life is what you make of it.

Unfortunately, many more teens than are ever commonly reported commit suicide because of the very things you are concerned about. Thank you for calling the hotline! My sister died when I was 5 and neither of my parents have ever really gotten over it, even though it happened more than 20 years ago. They didn't lose her to sucide, but I imagine that would just make things even worse for your parents.

I know things seem really hard right now, but I promise they will work out eventually. Just be true to yourself. You can have a wife and kids if you want, but trying to change who your body reacts to is just an exercise in frustration, as I'm sure you are already learning. If you just accept that your body is going to do what it's going to do, but that you can still date who you want to date, I think things will go a lot easier.

Once again, I hope this helps and I hope you get more responses.

P.S. Not that you have ever mentioned any religious concerns, but since Vanessa C brings it up, intolerant people are actually more likely to go to Hell than either bisexuals or homosexuals. That is, if you believe in a Christian god. Of course, that brings up a whole topic of discussion that really doesn't pertain to the question you asked.

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i'm a totally straight girl, but i think almost everybody wants to have a child some day.

WELL I AINT A BISEXUAL BUT MY FRIENDS WHO ARE OF COURCE THINK THEY ARE GOING TO GET MARRIED CAUSE THEY WANT A FAMILY. AND WHAT U R IS A SIN SO IF GOD CAME THEN U WILL GO TO HELL SO PLEASE PRAY TO GO SO U COULD CHANGE

be one or the other, don't drag your family thru this. be true to one sex
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Don't think so

I know how you feel about this. I am going through the same thing and it sucks. I guess I consider myself bi-curious and I want to get married and have kids when I meet the right girl. Until then, I just flow with the punches.

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