Should I let my childs father see his child?

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Please read carefully!I just had a 6wk old baby by a man Ive been dating for 5yrs on & off.He has put me through Hell! & back b/c I was pregnate.Our child was born early due to stress(31wks).Although he's done all ths I still love him.We talked about marriage and all.He has thrown other girls n my face,taken another women 2 c or daughter @ the NICU,thats 2 name a few.He is very young and now says that he is sorry.Still seems a lil unsure if he wants to make it work w/me.He gets jealous and makes smart comment like "he could b w/me if he wanted.My friends say that his pride is so bad that he is trying to c where my head is b4 making a move.(His pride is outta this world)Should I take his privelages away for a second,stop the phone calls.His family luvs our daughter there the only reason I havent.I want him to know im the best thing and he cant treat me any kind of way and he claims he's changing.***Serious answers only b/c im really hurting behind his bullsh*t.He is 24.

Answers:
Although your hurt its not fair to the baby by keeping him away ,however PLEASE don't fall for the "we need to be together for the baby'' Bullsh*t , and although it hurts now it will get better I promise and about the phone calls if they don't pertain to your child kindly let him know you have nothing else to talk about until he proves he is ready to change and grow the hell up and then you should discuss your relationship (and note change doesn't happen in a day or even a week)

Sounds to immature to face the responsibility of fatherhood.
Why not cool it with him and see how you both react/feel after say 6 MONTHS.
You think with your mind not your heart.

are you not thinking of keeping the child from knowing his daddy ?? why deprive the kid of knowing who his daddy is ......... dont do it for the man , but you need to do it for the kid , he has a right to know and possibilly love his father ..yes you let them see each other ...... it doesnt have to be alone , the dad came come meet you both somewhere , but for the kids sake he should see daddy ............... you cant use the kid as a tool because you dont like what the man did .......

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