Is it normal to feel worried the first time you have had intercourse?

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Of course, it's natural. Just be sure it's what you really want and that you really want it with that person. You don't get a chance to do it over.

Let me soothe you.

Baby! Baby! Oh no! HIV! ahhhhh!

joking aside, yes..I'm sure it is.. emotions can be very complex and guilt maybe an issue. Make sure that your thoughts are healthy by talking to a counselor or professional.

Of course, It is new to you. Just make sure you are ready. Do not rush in to this.

yes, now answer the q 5 down from yours.

yes it is due to your lack of experience, your first time you dont know what you are supposed to do.are you doing it right? etc. but once you start getting used to it your insecurities will go away and you will enjoy it more and more.

Only if you didn't use a condom, wrap it up every time.

It's not unusual at all. And it's not just the first time either.

Sex, especially these days, is rife with possible harmful consequences. An unwanted pregnancy is one risk (and abortion has terrible consequences). STDs abound and many of them are NOT effectively blocked through condom use. Not even HIV is blocked all that effectively! Some test results have shown success rates as low as 83%. Note the condom ads. They'll quote 99%+ effectiveness *at preventing pregnancy* but cop out and say "lowers the risk of AIDS" when talking about HIV. Why? Because the real effectiveness isn't something they want to advertise. but they want you to buy, buy, buy their product.

The best way to enjoy a healthy, stress-free, and satisfying sexual relationship is to save it for a committed marriage. And that can be immensely satisfying and also help make for a more stable relationship. All this "you have to have experience" or "sow your wild oats" etc etc is a load of bull propagated by people who can't see the forest for the trees.

I waited a long time. Then I went on a promiscuous streak. I wish I'd waited until I got married because I sold sex short of God's design and paid the price in emotional pain. I'm just lucky I avoided disease.

Is it normal to feel worried the first time you have had intercourse?

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