Please Help me.I'm 31 yrs old and At this point in life I still have alot of trouble deciding my goals.?
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Try survival, one day at a time
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it's never too late as long as you're breathing.maybe you should focus on one goal at a time. i mean, when you're trying to do too much it just never works out.
I'm 40 and that still sounds like my life
I know this woman who's in her 50's in the same boat. IMO her expectations are way 2 high. I say start lower then you would want and work up from there. You may see that your goals have changed.
Wow. At least you know you want something and have a desire to be a better example for your children. Have faith. I'm 37 and just starting to get my s**t straight. I start college in the Fall. I left my job recently and started taking some classes at our local job link in town. I don't even know if they have those everywhere but they have turned my life around. REALLY! All the classes are free and you can even get your GED if you never graduated from high school. I'm not sure exactly how that works but there are also classes that test your skills and abilities. Personality test and they all help you decide what you want to be "when you grow up". I live in N.C. so like I said I don't know if they have those in all states but there are numerous opportunities out there and believe me IT'S NEVER TOO LATE!
If you have any questions contact me. I'd be glad to help if I can. I'm really excited for myself right now so have all of this energy and enthusiasm so let me know and good luck!
take a cruse alone, while on board relax and make a list of all the things you want to accomplish in your life, family should always come first, set high goals for your children so they will try to reach them and 31 isnt as old as you may think
You may want to go to a working solutions center.get evaluated.they can help you find the career you want.Vesid is another program that helps parents get the profession they want and the pay scale they need.good luck
Read this then sit down and write.
Make goal categories, ie
relationship
kids family
vacations
homes
health
bad habits
job
money
etc. etc.
Write all these categories then think of every goal you want to reach. They do not need to be specific right now, think big but not ridiculous.
Is is very important that you write and commit to each goal on paper. After each one put a time line or a realistic expectation of when you would like to reach each goal.
Keep this paper and read it in the Am and PM, think about it and focus. You will see over time almost everything you commit to paper will be in your life.
You are the architect of your own fortune..
Good luck.
You are a step ahead of a lot of people. Many don't even know what goals really are! So you're on the right track.
I actually teach goal setting and help people to understand that until you write down your goals, they are only dreams.
It's never too late to set your goals, successful people do it every day and follow their goals like a roadmap.
Not finishing high school is not a problem. If you go into business for yourself and work with the team that I do, you will see your goals in no time!!
I too never did anything after high school and my kids tell me every day how proud they are of me. That is very rewarding.
Please contact me and I will be more than happy to talk to you about this..I see incredible potential in what you have written.
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