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Question:

Im sort of regretful I did a girl that i didn't really like i wanted it to be special but hey i was turned on , had a girl wanting to do it we got a condom a latex of course that say protects againce pregnancy and hiv. I do believe in safer sex. The condom stayed in place the whole when i came all of the *** was in the condom so im pretty sure non got inside of her do you think i will be all right what is my chances of getting HIV what is my chances of getting her pregnant she has had 2 partners including me i have had 1 including her.

15 yearold male

Answers:
If you used a condom and it didn't break then the chances of both of those things having happened are none. Condoms have like a 99% success rate, and the 1% is because they sometimes break. But since it stayed on and did not break you should be fine on both counts.

If you had sex with a condom you should be fine. But if you really aren't sure you can go to a clinic and get tested for HIV and i would stop doing the nasty till your older honey really do you want to be a dad right now?

Alisha is right do you want to make monthly installments for 18 - 23 years for one night of sex. gee one night of sex might cost you only $200,000.00 if your lucky!

Okay, crap.

You're 15? You really need to be able to controll yourself. Being horny or turned on is no excuse, kid, you could have potentially ruined your life, and are much too young to be having sex! Your chances of her being impregnated are very low, but condoms do not prevent the spread of stds or HIV.

Okay, well, don't do it again. You SHOULD be fine, but there are no guarentees. You're a kid, whack off or something when it gets to be too much, but having sex with a girl who dosen't matter so much to you(since you already show regret, was not a good idea), who has more partners than you isn't very safe at all.

You should probably get tested, and cut the crap out for a while, and wait until you find the right girl..etc.

Think before you act. Sex is nice, but not everything, and shouldn't be practiced by kids, people who couldn't handle the possible outcomes of sex.etc.. And at 15, you couldn't support a pregnant girl, a child, or want your life shortned or made agonizing frm a STD at such a young age..

Sometimes it was unbearable, because of emotions and hormones raging, but I waited for me to get married. It turned out for the best, my husband ended up doing the same, so never lived in fear of disease or an unwanted child. Hm, and I don't regret NOT sleeping with ex boyfriends, turned out the main one had HPV.icky.. Not everyone waits for marriage, and that's fine, whatever, just be safe and smart from now on! ok?

Good luck, and think rationally. :-)

Condoms do not prevent anything,they HELP prevent,help being the operative word.

You had sex with a condom and you are going to be fine

if you used a comdom than all consequences are reduced to less that 2 %

Well, if you used the condom properly, you don't need to be worried about HIV.

i think you will be ok

Talk to your parents about it, here's how.

Talking to Your Parents About Birth Control
by Logan R. Levkoff, 03.13.02

Many of you may be feeling anxious about some of the decisions that you face about having sex — including avoiding sexually transmitted infection and unintended pregnancy. Believe it or not, some of your parents are feeling just as anxious about the decisions you will make about sex! Some of them may be so anxious that they haven't tried to talk with you about it.

If you want to involve your parents in your decisions about protecting yourself when it comes to having sex, you can be the one to initiate the conversation.

"What's the point?" you may ask. Good question! Here are some possible benefits:

* You may get good advice and counseling about how to make decisions that will be best for you.
* You may increase the trust your parents have for you.
* Sharing this kind of information with them may show you are ready to be making responsible decisions about sex.
* You may get your parents' help finding information about birth control, safer sex, or in finding a clinician, nurse practitioner, or gynecologist.

But before you psych yourself up to talk to one or both of your parents about birth control, think about how they may react. If you think they might freak out, you may want to wait to have this discussion until you're all ready for it. In this case, you could turn to another trusted adult — maybe someone at your school or someone from a local family planning clinic. Talking to an adult you trust can give you the opportunity to rehearse what you want to say to your parents.

You should know that most parents want their children to grow up to have healthy sex lives. And healthy sexuality involves being responsible. Parents want their teens to make good decisions. And they want their children to be protected emotionally and physically. If you think mom or dad can handle a discussion about you having sex, there are some things you can say and do that may help the conversation go more smoothly.

Talking Tips:

1. Getting started: Give your parents a heads-up by scheduling your talk in advance. Just say something like "Can we have a private talk tonight?" If you're nervous, it's okay to say so! Break the ice with something like, "This feels weird for me to talk about, and it may be for you, too, but I want to tell you ."

If you don't know where to start, use a book or a magazine you've read, or a show you've watched, as a jumping-off point. And say something like, "I read about someone who had sex when she was 15 years old. What do you think about that?"

2. How do you want them to be involved? Often parents want to feel needed and involved in their children's lives. Make sure to tell them what role you want them to play in your decision-making.

* You may want their valuable advice about whether or not you are ready to have a sexual relationship.
* You may want them to know about the choices you are making about safer sex and birth control.
* You may want them to give you suggestions about ways to protect yourself from infection and/or give you information about birth control.
* You may want one or both of your parents to go with you to a family planning clinic or a gynecologist when you're ready to start using a method of birth control or for a check up if you've already started having sex.

3. Confront the situation: You might say something like, "I'm starting to make important decisions about sex, and I want to talk to you about how to protect myself from sexually transmitted infections and pregnancy."

4. Use your sexuality education: Parents want to make sure that you're informed about the risks involved in having sex. Educate yourself and tell them what you know about pregnancy, sexually transmitted infections, and how you intend to protect yourself. This may help your parents feel better about your decision.

Sexuality is a natural and normal part of life. And so is sex. Having sex is a big decision. It involves many feelings and responsibilities. Remember that even if you follow all of these tips, your parents may not agree with your decision. Be sure to consider that possibility and its possible outcomes before you try to have the conversation.

But since most parents say that they will welcome the opportunity to talk with their kids about sexuality, most of us are not disappointed when we decide to start that conversation ourselves.
Source(s):
http://www.teenwire.com/infocus/2002/if-.

Now if you can't talk to them here's the next step.

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Don't be a dumb *** and believe stuff like this:

Facts and Myths about Getting Pregnant

Can you get pregnant just hanging out in a hottub? How about if you haven't had your period yet? Learn some of the myths and truths about getting pregnant.

You can get pregnant if you haven't had your period
TRUE. Remember, a woman's period is the END of her fertility cycle. This is happening because there was no egg and sperm meeting, so the blood lining the uterus is being discarded. But if you're having sex, your body is probably at the point that it is going to start your period shortly. Many girls have gotten pregnant because they had sex during their first egg cycle.

You have to have actual penetration to get pregnant
FALSE. All that has to happen is that the sperm have to get in to the egg. A sperm's entire mission in life is to get to the egg - they are incredibly powerful and mobile. Couples that have 'gotten excited' in a hot tub have had the woman get pregnant. Couples that have 'fooled around' next to each other in a bed or car have ended up with the woman pregnant. The male doesn't have to fully ejaculate for this to happen - often just a few drops are enough.

Douching with coke/pepsi/etc. will prevent pregnancy
FALSE. Some women feel that getting liquid inside their vagina after sex will somehow kill or wash out the sperm. What it actually ends up doing is pushing the sperm up higher into the vagina, so it has an even better chance of finding the egg.

I'm only able to get pregnant on certain days, so otherwise I'm safe
FALSE. Sure, most women have a cycle of 28 days. However, this is not a Swiss-watch-mechanism we're talking about. It's a human body, affected by stress, foods, and other external conditions. Women often have period skip, or start or end earlier or later. Many times they are regular, but this is never a guarantee.

Urban Legends

Aspirin and Getting Pregnant
Some believe that taking aspirin before or after sex will help hinder pregnancy. This is completely untrue. Aspirin might help with heart disease, but it has no effect on pregnancy.
Breastfeeding and Pregnancy
It might seem like an old wives´ tale, but breastfeeding really does lower your chances of pregnancy. It does not PREVENT pregnancy though, so take precautiouns unless you wish to be pregnant again.
Conception Without Intercourse
It is very possible for a woman to become pregnant while remaining a virgin.
Douching with Sprite can Prevent Pregnancy
This urban legend claims if the girl douches with Sprite, 7-Up, Coca-cola or another carbonated drink that she can wash sperm out of her. This simply isn´t true.
Getting Pregnant During your Period
There´s an urban legend that you can´t get pregnant during your period. Because a woman´s cycle is not 100% predictable, there is never a perfectly safe period as far as pregnancy goes.
Getting Pregnant During your Period
There´s an urban legend that you can´t get pregnant during your period. Because a woman´s cycle is not 100% predictable, there is never a perfectly safe period as far as pregnancy goes.
Getting Pregnant Through Underwear
Some believe that as long as you keep your underwear on, you can´t get pregnant. Unfortunately for them, sperm care little about things like underwear - and they´re incredibly mobile.
Girl On Top Prevents Pregnancy
Some believe that having the girl on top - or having sex standing up - will prevent pregnancy. Unfortunately for them, sperm don´t care about gravity. They have their own means of locomotion.
Jumping Up and Down to Prevent Pregnancy
There´s an urban legend that a girl can jump up and down after sex to prevent pregnancy. That old wives tale is centuries old and is completely untrue.
Losing Virginity and Pregnancy
Many virgins believe they can´t get pregnant the first time they have sex. They are quite mistaken. All a pregnancy takes is a sperm getting inside the vagina - something that *definitely* happens during all sex.
Pulling Out and Preventing Pregnancy
Sometimes guys offer to "pull out" to prevent pregnancy. Studies show that of 100 women that try this method, 19 will get pregnant within the year.
Sneezing and Sex
Some feel that a girl can sneeze all of the sperm out of her. This is far from the truth - acts like sneezing do little to deter a sperm from its search for an egg. If you are sexually active at all, be sure to take precautions. It only takes one mistake for you to end up with a very serious situation, one that will affect the rest of your life.
Myths and Truths About Getting Pregnant
Things you might have heard about getting pregnant… true or false?

1. Is it impossible to get pregnant the first time you have sex?
It is a common myth that you can't get pregnant the first time you have sex. This is simply not true. There is always a possibility that you will get pregnant if you have sex – even the very first time. If you are having sex and don't want to get pregnant, you will need to choose a method of contraception that will suit your body and lifestyle.

2. Can you take a pregnancy test as soon as you have had sex?
No. In order for a test to give you an accurate result, your body needs to go through several early stages of conceiving. If you have sex and this results in fertilization of an egg, it will then take about 6-7 days for this fertilized egg (which gradually becomes an embryo) to travel down the Fallopian tube and into your womb. The embryo then has to implant into the lining of the womb (implantation) for a pregnancy to continue and for the pregnancy hormone (hCG) to be produced. It is hCG that registers positive on your pregnancy test, but the level won't be high enough to be detected for another few days yet. By the time you would expect to have had your next period, the levels are sufficient to give you a reading that is 99% accurate.
If you are testing before you expect your period to start, we recommend you test with your first urine of the day.
To determine when your next period is due, it is important to have kept track of your usual cycle length over a several month period. You can calculate cycle length by counting the number of days from the first day of a period until the day before your next period starts. Once you know your usual cycle length, you can anticipate when your next period is expected to start.
·You can test for pregnancy whenever you feel the urge to urinate. Avoid excessive fluid intake before testing.
·If you have irregular cycles, you should allow for your longest cycle in recent months before testing.
·If you have no idea when your period is due we recommend testing not less than 19 days after the last time you had unprotected sex.
·If the result is 'Not Pregnant', and pregnancy is still suspected, you should wait at least 3 days before testing again as you may have tested too early.

3. Are you more likely to get pregnant on the 14th day of your cycle?
No, not necessarily. This is a myth that has been taught in many junior high health classes, but differs from woman to woman—and even from cycle to cycle for any particular woman. When you ovulate depends on your cycle length and the regularity of your ovulation pattern. You are at your most fertile the day before and the day you actually ovulate; this is generally 12-16 days before your next period starts. Although you are at your most fertile during the two days around ovulation, sperm can survive for up to 5 days, so even if you have sex days before you ovulate, the sperm may survive and still be ready to fertilize the egg when you ovulate.

4. If you have sex during your period can you get pregnant?
It is unlikely, but not impossible, for you to get pregnant during your period. You are only fertile, and therefore able to get pregnant, on a few days each cycle – the days leading up to and around the time of ovulation (when an ovary releases an egg). If, however, you have a short cycle length e.g. 20 days, you could be ovulating around Day 6 of your cycle and could, therefore, be fertile very early in your cycle even though you are still bleeding.

Planned parenthood can help you, it's free
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/birth-c.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/sexual-.

You wouldn't have had to worry if you would have not had sex! What's with all of you kids and having sex? You're to young! Also you might have wanted to know if she had AIDS before you had sex with her.

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