Sexual problem?

Question:

Hi there,

Since the past a few months, I have been having problem with my sexual life. I cannot pro-long sex and also having erection problem.
I feel horney most of the times and end up jerking off like 3-4 time a weeks. I do have a steady girl friend and she's quite satisfied with me. But I personally do not feel satisfied by my performance as I do not enjoy it most for i get off very quickly just in a few minutes after pumping in & out.
I also tried pfizer-viagra,, it also does not prolong it longer than 10mins in my case.. It's really disturbing me somehow. Any advices on this?
I'm thinkg to go for consultation. So any ideas what kind of doc should i consult with? Are there some kinda specialist for this case? Or any ordinary doc would be ok? Please advise..Thanks

Answers:
If you are seeking medical help, you should go see a Urologist first. It this is not satisfactory the next doctor to go see is a psychologist or a sexual therapist, as there may be some type of psychological thing going on in your head.

But for the most part, it could be a number of factors. Age, as our bodies change as we get older certain systems re-regulate themselves. Stress, if your work or home life is very stressful because of certain problems, this can interfere with your weekly sexual activity. Worrying about how long you stay erect or worrying about your preformance. Also there has been studies that seem to suggest that masturbating more than usual while having a sexual relationship at the same time, tends to speed up ejaculation when have sexual relations with your partner.

This is caused by masturbating more frequently you train your body to climax at a much faster pace then you or your partner are use to. Maybe if you do mastubate on a regular basis, Start training your body not to climax as fast. Any sexual activity you have should be done as a slow pace and to be preformed over a longer period of time.

I understand your problem and concern as I have been there myself. I have found if I just relax and just concentrate on my partner, not worry if I come to fast or not... I seem to last longer and both of us are satisfied.

So get a check up, relax and maybe if you masturbate often only do it when you have time and no quickies.

Other Answers:
A sure sign of a mental thing. Insecurity. See a shrink first.

A Urologist. M.D.

mmmm maybe you are not being satisfied because your girlfriend just isnt all that good... maybe your girlfriend isnt really working as hard as she could... i dont know... but good luck on the matter....

Go to see a doctor of Chinese medicine and take the herbs he gives you. Obey his orders. You'll get better. Avoid allopathic MD-urologists. They are waste of money. You will see

You should have ur prostate checked this can be the cause

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