Why can't my boyfriend ejaculate during sex?

Question:

I know it's a stereotype, but you would expect most men who are virgins to ejaculate fairly early on in sex for their first time, right?

Well, my significant other and I have had sex three times so far in total over the past few days, each session lasting about forty minutes, and he can't seem to ejaculate for some reason.

I know that he's not in very good shape ((He's actually pretty thin though)), and that he masturbates alot, but. I don't know if those are significant reasons or not. I'm assuming that its my appearance somehow, even though he has made no negative comments about the way I look to me.

I'm not terribly fat, 5'7" 139 lbs., but for some reason I can't help but think that his obsession with porn causes him to have an unrealistic view of women, maybe? Could this be the cause of our problem?

Any responses would be much appreciated. <3

Answers:
perhaps his unhealthy body, addiction to porn and masturbation, unrealistic view of women, and your appearance all contribute to your bf's problems. in addition, being a virgin, he may be a bit tense while having sex with you causing him not to ejaculate so he should relax. talk to him and thresh out all these issues. if necessary, your bf should consult a sex therapists. good luck. cheers!

Other Answers:
he ran out of semen

That's not it. Its either you or him. I masturbate often and still have sex with my gf's. It doesn't hinder my act but rather prolongs it, especially for them. Obesity can turn a person off big time, others enjoy it. Sounds like you have someone who doesn't like it but you can't blame it on porn.

Maybe he's afraid he'll get you pregnant. Are you using anything?

You claim he masturbates often well that's the problem. He is young and can get erections often but problem is he is not able to reproduce semen soon enough. If you want o to ejaculate inside you then ask him to reframe from masturbating several hours before having intercourse with you. It has nothing to do with either of you.
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is he on Zoloft or any other medications or drugs (legal or street, or even alcohol) that would delay ejaculation? ask him honestly if this has happened to him before if it is normal for him - then it isn't you, it is him.

Run out of sperm? I don't think so kinda unusual for a youngin'

5'7"/137 lbs is NOT fat your body mass index (BMI) is only 21.5% 25% is overweight and more than 30% is obese. Just talk to him.

how old is he? his obsession in porn films and masturbation might be some reasons he failed to ejaculate. Both of u should try foreplaying before addressing into sexual intercourse. Sit down and talk over it, listen to his problem. If problem unsolve, advice him to consult a doctor.
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_dysfunction

I don't know why he cant but how do you know he masturbates a lot? haha just wondering the awkward talk or how you found out

Bring this to his attention and then gently ask him to stop watching pornography and to keep masturbation to a minimum for awhile. Psychological studies have shown many adverse effects on male psychy due to pornography, some of these include; DESENSITIZATION. lack of interest in their partner, infidelity, aggression, violence, and basically just a callous animalistic view of women. PLEASE bring this to his attention!

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