To get him to last a little longer..?
We have a pretty healthy sex life. Between 10-12 times a week on average. We are very sexual people. He has always been on the quick side...intercourse 5-10 minutes at the max. Most of the time it does not bother me. I enjoy making him happy, and he also makes sure that I am happy. But lately we both feel unsatisfied with the 5-10 minutes.we are hoping for a little more. Any suggestions?? We have tried the whole masturbate before sex, but that does not seem to help.or else he is a tad on the tired side. I am not complaining...I realize that we are lucky to have the passion that we have, and maybe I am selfish to want it longer or more...but well...what can I say LOL. Thanks in advance.
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Music in the background, change postitions, and the top answer would be, forget masturbating before hand. I say, follow these steps:
1) Start having sex, when he comes proceed to step 2
2) Start having sex, when he comes proceed to step 3
3) Start having sex, when he comes proceed to step 4 or go to sleep
4) Start having sex, when he comes proceed to give him oral so he'll have sex again or go to sleep.
Needless to say, I wish I had your problem. 10-12 times a week? If that were the case I would never leave home!
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tell him to think about dead puppies, that really breaks the mood then his going to have to start from the beginning again.
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lucky.i want it 10-12 times a week. how about u just give him a HAND (literally) before then go for the big stuff.
Try this as foreplay:
The "stop and start" method:
This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. The stimulation is then removed for about thirty seconds and then may be resumed. The sequence is repeated until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.
The "squeeze" method:
This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. At that point, the man or his partner gently squeezes the end of the penis (where the glans meets the shaft) for several seconds, withholding further sexual stimulation for about 30 seconds, and then resuming stimulation. The sequence may be repeated by the person or couple until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.
Exactly Gracie. Your very lucky to be having sex this many times a week, when I think the average for "married" couples is somewhere like 1-2 X a week. And, you know, per our conversations that I'm way "below" the norm (lol).
Talk with your doctor. I was reading that the average male orgasm takes about 2.5 minutes, so if he is actually "inside" you for about 5-10 minutes, your doing very good. And, by the way, if it was more than that, you'd have a pretty sore "hooch".
Good luck
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--J
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