Why doesn't he last very long in sex?

Question:

My boyfriend is in his early 30's. When we have sex he only last for maybe a minute, sometimes more, but usually less. Sometimes he can't even get an erection. Can someone give me some advice on why this is happening. Our sex life really sucks.

Answers:
Stress, diabetes, high blood pressure - for the inability to get an erection, or too much porn.

For the premature ejaculation, you can try one of these techinques.

The "stop and start" method:

This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. The stimulation is then removed for about thirty seconds and then may be resumed. The sequence is repeated until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.

The "squeeze" method:

This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. At that point, the man or his partner gently squeezes the end of the penis (where the glans meets the shaft) for several seconds, withholding further sexual stimulation for about 30 seconds, and then resuming stimulation. The sequence may be repeated by the person or couple until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.

There's way to have orgasms without ejaculating, so that he won't lose his "manjuice" but he can orgasm. When he doesn't lose his manjuice, his dikk stays hard and he can keep going. Its great cause he won't lose his erection, and he can have as many orgasms as he can handle, it just takes some practice. Mistermanpower.com has a great guide on how to do this

Could be stress? High blood pressure?Does he exercise and eat healthy? This could maybe help. Or, lots of foreplay!

he could be stressed. high cholesterol levels (no blood flow to the penile shaft).
• he could use a c0ckstrap to help retain blood in the penile area
• he could use some herbal supplements to increase libidio: Ginseng, Sasasprilla, Damiana, Long Jack, RTDs Redline & Blackpearl, Yohimbe Bark, Nettle, Maca, Ashwagndra (sp).

He's not that into you and he wants to get it overwith fast.

This is a fairly common sexual disorder called "premature ejaculation". There are some products to help numb the penis to try to last longer. I gotta tell you, though, grown men with the problem have a really hard time getting rid of it.

Here's a link with more info.
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/prematu...

Why doesn't he last very long in sex?

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