I did not get hard erection while intercourse?
Question:
i am facing a problem of erection. i am able to penitrate but feeling that not getting hard erection.
what should be the problem.
Answers:
At your age, without any physical health problems, you should be OK. Just don't try too hard. You have just married and may do it too often. Let a few days go by without thinking of sex and your desires and hormones will then help your alleged problem immensely. Also your understanding partner can help you with a little more caressing before the act. If you feel strongly that you have a problem go to a doctor who can advise you what to do.
take viagra
Are you hard before you go in or are you not getting properly hard?
Ask your wife to give you a hand (she will rub much better than you) and maybe return the favour at the same time (you don't want her to feel left out). That should get the blood back into place.
If you guys were virgins, I'd recommend getting a book like 'Intended for Pleasure'. It will probably explain any of the questions you have.
If you weren't virgins, it might just be post marriage stress. Either way, practice makes perfect. Enjoy the practice.
it could be ED(Erectile Dysfunction) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/erectile_dy...
I am 33 and have this same problem from time to time. Most of the time I have an idea on why I am having it.
I take Paroxatine (generic Paxil) and one of the side-effects in sometimes the inability to get/maintain a firm erection or having delayed ejaculation. These problems happened more often when I first started taking the drug but now, after nearly 3 years, they are much less frequent.
Still sometimes I have a hard time getting an firm erection. This, am sure of, is caused by me being a little tired. Other times I may have had a more stressful day at work or with our children. In any case my wife knows it is nothing she has or has not done. She also knows that I do not have any less feeling for her. We have discussed this many times and we both know that it is just one of those things that happens to males and to not let it get to either of us. When this does happen I will get about 50% to 70% hard. What I'll do then is make sure my wife gets well warmed-up and has an orgasm first. Choose your method but she likes to have her clit rubbed to orgasm. Then, I'll get on top and, even with a firm erection, I can still get inside her. Most times after a few minutes I get nearly or completely hard. If not I can still ejaculate although she may not get as much pleasure as I would have liked her to have but since I know she had already had an orgasm I don't feel as badly.
Sometimes this problem happens to men for other reasons other than being tired of under stress and having side-effects to prescription drugs. The inability to get or maintain a firm erection is sometimes caused by the beginning stages or having full blown diabetes. If you are otherwise healthy and/or there is a history of diabetes in your family this may be the cause for your situation.
Any cause is having high blood pressure. Your heart just can't maintain an erection and the rest of your body. This can be a serious condition since the causes of high blood pressure (high cholesterol in your diet, stress, etc.) can lead to far more serious problems than the inability to get hard. This is also why the erection drugs like Viagra are not given out with a prescription and shouldn't be taken unless you know you are healthy.
I hope my answers gave you a better idea on what might be causing your situation and how to help you get through it!
Good luck! :)
These are two of the most common causes of erectile dysfunction:
1.Psychological (mental) causes
This is often described as a pattern of anxiety and stress that can further interfere with normal sexual function.
Certain feelings can interfere with normal sexual function, including feeling nervous about or self-conscious about sex; feeling stressed either at home or at work; or feeling troubled in your current relationship.
2.Physical or organic (having to do with a bodily organ or an organ system) causes
To rule out the real cause of your problem, it would be advisable to consult your doctor.
Check out Mistermanpower.com, it has natural ways of strengthening your erection, such as exercises. They work very well!
e-d dude. get a rx.
you must learn how to relax
i have the same problem too I'm 29 years old and constantly having sex when ever I can. I do have an ejaculation when my penis is not hard (75%) hard. At first I had anorgasmia with easy to get erections but now i have erection problems with and when I'm hard I easily train myself to orgams.
take tribulus terristris and ZMA before you go to sleep. That has help me.
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