My Fiance has a sexual problem, he has retarded ejaculation syndrome?
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Thank you
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I know how you feel - my husband suffers from the same thing and he usually has to masterbate in order to climax. A sex therapist would probably do the most good.
Also, is he taking any prescriptions? Some drugs can cause this problem.
Usually though, the problem is psychological and it has to be worked through with a professional.
never heard of that one
I have never heard of such a disorder
Please explain further..
I have the opposite, tell him i'd LOVE to swap!
tell him to put on a strap on for you
retarded? what do you mean?
Hiya!
Is that a real Disorder? I would advise him to go to the Doc's. They should be able to help or at least tell you where you can get it sorted.
All The Best
He definitely needs to talk to a specialist.
There is probably a simple solution.
Best of luck to both of you.
He masterbates too much maybe, get him to stop. That usually the cause of that problem. It's not the same sensation for him, but I dont what the problem is with a session going for 30 mins or more.
just type it in the search bar theres tons of places to visit on the condition heres one to start you off good luck you two xxx
http://www.bashh.org/committees/sig/dys_...
Go see your GP.
Wow, no i haven't heard of anything like that!
I mean, i know that some men can't get out as much, but i didn't know there was an actual syndrome for that.
Why must the name pertain "retarded"?
It's just the name i suppose.
I was researching it a bit, and i read that it was rare, and there wern't many treatments for it but that hopefully they'd fine something while that syndrome got more and more frequent. [hence more males to do studies on etc.]
I find that fascinating, the syndrome..
I'm sorry your partner has to go through with it..
We all have our problems, and our flaws, no one should forget.
All the luck to you both!
Take care,
xx
Retarded ejaculation usually happens because of a lack of excitement (in the same way, premature ejaculation is mostly due to too much excitement). This is easily misunderstood, and the normal difficulty in talking about it, is often because of this misunderstanding.
Sex is thought of as something that 'just happens', but people have different approaches and reactions to it. A lot of the 'biology' of sex really happens in the mind. If there is a lot of 'stimulation' going on in the imagination, before physical contact happens, then it will take less of this contact to cause ejaculation or orgasm.
Most people are familiar with the idea that a woman will need a lot of contact (often called 'foreplay') before she can come. It is assumed that men will come more easily, needing less contact. These patterns are related to the different 'sexual' fantasies (daydreams) that each gender learns to use.
If your fiance's physical arousal is 'kick-started' by physical contact, rather than mental imagery, it will take longer for him to reach a climax. This is a stereotypically 'female' response pattern. Your own pattern might be 'male' according to the stereotypes (the range in each gender is very wide, and they overlap). The contrast would make him seem like an even slower responder than he actually is.
A 'standard' approach would be to engage in a lot of intimate contact which IS NOT intended to result in a climax. This approach tends to equalise your responses, by slowing you down and speeding him up.
If you analyse your own sexual behaviour, you might find that your fantasy life is very active, and you are aroused during everyday activities that have nothing to do with your sex life. Teaching him to use more fantasies (in imagination; NOT by acting them out in real life) will increase the amount of time he spends 'simmering', while you are not engaged in sexual behaviour. It can also speed up his response to shared sexual behaviour, so that he is much closer to coming by the time you begin intimate physical contact.
this is a psychological problem . well documented . usually to do with resentment .need to talk to doctor and get referred. will get cured worry is your worst enemy.
some anti-depressants cause this reaction. he needs to get over the sensitivity and talk to his doctor.
Try this site tells you all about the condition and what to do. Hope it helps :-)
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