Should i cut him some slack?
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i suspect you don't get mad but you have more of a feeling of disappointment. is it because he is a great guy? or is it because he's "A " guy whom you're currently seeing and you two don't see as much of each other as you would like. if it's the former cut him slack, if it's the later, well you have a decision to make. realize the two of you are reaching the age where you can't see as much of each other as you would like. the demands the world places on adults is much different than when we're dating as teenagers. good luck.
I think you should move on I think you grew up and he didn't. If your in your 20's what the problem with him? Are you just a booty call?? If you are run RUN away and find someone that wants to be with you!!
well if u ask him 2 call n he says of course stuff like that then sure u cud but if u ask 2 call n he says idk then dont get mad n if u dont even ask then dont get mad but if he said he wud calll n he doesnt then ya u can get mad at him but try not 2 get 2 mad kuz that kud lead 2 break up
I dont think you should be mad unless you have told him you would like him to call you more.
Well guys don't really like calling the girls the feel pethictic and so maybe u should try calling him instead.
Some guys are just bad at calling becasue they dont know what to talk about or you just talk for a long time about nothing at all really. Even if we really like you this can be hard to put up with on a regular basis
WELL IN MY OPINION YOUR ANSWER CAN NOT BE ANSWERED WITHOUT ASKING A FEW ?'S. IS THERE A SCHEDULE CONFLICT THAT DOESNT ALLOW YOU AND YOUR BOYFRIEND TO SEE EACH OTHER? WHAT DOES, "HES NOT THE SMARTEST GUY IN THE WORLD MEAN?" IF YOU KNOW THAT HE HAS THE TIME TO CALL YOU AND HE DOESNT, MAYBE HE HAS A REASON FOR NOT CALLING YOU OR MAYBE BECAUSE THIS IS HIS FIRST RELATIONSHIP HE DOESNT WANT TO CALL YOU ALL THE TIME AND SMOTHER YOU. THIS IS NOT REALLY A QUESTION OF, DO YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO GET MAD...BUT, MAYBE YOU SHOULD SIT DOWN AND TALK TO HIM ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL BEFORE YOU GET MAD OR SAD. REMEMBER HE CAN NOT READ YOUR MIND AND HE DOESNT SEE THE FRUSTRATION THAT YOU CARRY. GIVE HIM THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT AND TALK TO HIM FIRST. RELATIONSHIPS MUST HAVE COMMUNICATION..GOOD LUCK
sounds like you both need smarter people in your lives.
Good luck
well if its his first relationship, cut his just a LITTLE bit of slack. if he doesnt call you, you call him. ask him to hang out, go out with you. you know, ask him to spend some time with you and talk. explain to him how u feel also. let him know everything inside taht you feel.
Yes, you have the right to have your needs met. Everyone has the right to have their needs met. But your bf may like a little more space than what you are comfortable having in your relationship. You two need to talk about this since I doubt either one of you are mind readers. If he doesn't know that you would like more contact time with him, then he probably won't make more contact. So acknowledge your needs and talk about it with him. The rules of the game are completely made up by the people who are engaged (youz guys) so you have to also be prepared to acknowledge that he may need more space than you do.
Either way - talk to him!
Yes cut him some slack. I was with a chic that loved me
and always sent me cards and stuff. One time I was at
the hospital, while my sister had her baby. It happened so
fast, there was no time to call my girlfriend. When I called
her, she thought I was lying and yelled at me, and came
to the hospital to see if it was all true. My mom told me
this girl has a problem, in a big way, and so I talked to
my girlfriend, and told her she can't love me one minute
and then hate me the next. That is schizophrenic. I have
never done anything to make her question my faithfulness,
and well anyway, she ended up sleeping with my friend,
and I dumped her azz, and told him to go pizz up a stump.
They fought all the time, and broke up a week later, and
I told her never call me again, and told my friend to go
to hell.
What I am wondering is why you would say your boyfriend
is not the smartest guy in the world, and you say he
might do something stupid. Something stupid how?
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